The girl I love thinks we're barly even friends and I now have her e-mail. She shares it with her mom though and I need to know how to tell her I like her without her mom getting mad or whatever.
2006-10-07 05:38:36 · 12 answers · asked by granite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also she lives far away from me so in persons out of the picture. A letter is too cause I don't know her address. I'm 11 and she is 10 so yes we are sort of young. Shes homeschooled if that makes a differance.
2006-10-07 05:45:41 · update #1
We've stred into eachothers eyes before and other things to give her "hints" but theres no way to be positive right.
2006-10-07 05:52:37 · update #2
Oh this is an interesting situtation... okay first of all don't use email to tell her, I've done this in the past... it only shows your to shy or scared to tell her in person. Through email.. just talk to her and I guess give her hints you like her but don't say it through email.. like be nice over email.. if she says something that you can give a complement towards then give it.. get good conversations going first.. and make her feel as if she is a friends.. then.. once she considers you a friend tell her in person, if shes in like your class for instance.. if your sitting next to her and if your like writing notes.. thats usually a good time to tell her lol my friend did that once they were writing notes about who there friends liked in the class and then next thing he asked was "so who do you like?" and then he told her that he liked her and it was all in writing... but lets say she's not in your class or even school you could just find a good time to tell her.. if your together for some reason your both left alone tell her then that you like her.. or i donno just be creative about it girls like it when your sweet and kind.. so yea.. and another good idea is get her mom to like you as a person.. if the mom likes you it'll only make things easyer for you, get the parents trust which is usually what I got for first.. just what I suggest is try not to do it through email.. if you do fine.. but just you never know who else will read that email once you press the send button... Just get to the status as friends first!!!... i didn't do that once and I lost this girl i like completly.. and if your shy.. well just find a way to talk to her.. because the most important thing is that you become friends first!!!... good luck.. and I hope this helps...
2006-10-07 05:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably wouldn't send her an e-mail. That might just embarass her if her mom gets ahold of it. Maybe try finding out if she has IM? Or handwrite her a letter and mail it to her. The best way would be to tell her upfront in person. Show confidence, but don't be cocky. But before you do anything, I would try becoming better friends with her to make it easier. If she doesnt see you as a friend first then it might just seem weird and scare her off.
2006-10-07 05:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by ongo_run 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let her know who you really are and explain first of all why you did not let her know in the first place,honesty is always the best policy so if you love a girl she should also love you back and appreciate your honesty or else the relationship is not worth working on. Just be respectful, polite and honest about it you could even try making conversation with her mother and I'm sure things will work out well ,Or just pray to God for guidance .bless
2006-10-07 06:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by redants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl you love thinks you're barely even friends - there's a huge gap/problem in itself. Analyze? Why is that. Can it be fixed? From there, if successful, invite her to Starbucks, lunch or something simple. Find out what she likes to do and ask her to join you in same. Definitely DON'T BE SHY. But don't be a SNEAKY SNALKER either! Good luck
2006-10-07 05:45:00 · answer #4 · answered by njabba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is email the only way that you can talk to her. i mean cause if it's not then that's great because i think that telling her in person is alot better then online or over the phone but that's just my opinion. so if you dont' i am sorry but yea if you do then try and do it in person.
2006-10-07 05:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by polobaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont email her or if you email her just keep things light and simple to you get a chance to be alone with her, then tell her you like her and soo forth
2006-10-07 05:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by trudycaulfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her ur number so u can talk on the phone but her mom wont know what ur talking about say u need help with omework or something
2006-10-07 05:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by adnama_n_werd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her in person if you can. She can look into your eyes and know how you really feel. that way her mom doesnt have to know
2006-10-07 05:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by RAZZEL-DAZZEL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um how about up in person? Just get close to her find her personallity no need to rush things.
2006-10-07 05:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you is my question?? if her mom is reading her e~mails she must be young.. you can always just write her a letter on how you feel and give it to her..
2006-10-07 05:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋