im still a virgin because when i do finally have sex i want it to be a good experience, was it a good experiance for you? (preferable girls)
2006-10-07 05:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will also say that im 18 and my boyfriend is 20. hes not a virgin but he tells me all the time that he wish he would have waited. hes not my first boyfriend either, i love him very much and im thinking it will be with him that i lose it with
2006-10-07 05:37:27 · update #1
I'm not a girl, but I can give you some advice.
Before you commit to sex, be sure that he is the one for you.
When you get married, your husband will respect you more than ever if you are a virgin.
Relationships seem to last longer when a person has good moral values.
Don't do it out of curiosity or lust. You'll be sorry later.
2006-10-07 05:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time I had sex it was one of the most pleasant experiences. My boyfriend was sweet, and careful about it. You just gotta make sure whoever you give your virginity to cares about you and trust me the wait is worth it!! Its nothing to worry about. You know how they scare you about your first time, its nothing like that at all. Just be positive and smart about it. Good luck!
2006-10-07 12:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kinniness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was 15, it was in the woods, but it was planned. Now at the age of 25, I regret the age but not the man, so yes, a good experience.
2006-10-07 12:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by lalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I laid there on the floor with my legs up in the air (pants around the ankle) and after he was done a couple minutes after that I'm like thinking to myself "that's it?" It didn't hurt but I'm thinking "what the heck is the big deal about sex if that is it... no magic for me?" Boy I've learned a lot since then!!!
2006-10-07 12:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the answers you will get from us girls I bet will say don't do it ,We will say wait as long as possible because the first guy is rarely the one who deserves you.I would say wait until you get married or engaged and have more experience with men before you give away some thing so special and you will never have again.I promise you if you do give yourself away early you will one day say you wish you hadn't.What about it girls ?am i right ??
2006-10-07 12:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but I can tell you it's not a good experience. Lot's of lube - lot's of yelling - having to explain to my mom why my back was all scratched up. Hate to think about it.
2006-10-07 12:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it kinda sucked for me i was 19 when i lost mine and the girl was 26 and very experienced and i didnt have a clue what i was doing it was kinda embarissing but at least i got it out of the way
2006-10-07 12:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Skillz_That_Killz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not have intercourse until my wedding night. After we had done it the song "Is That all there is" kept going through my mind. Of course I turned out to be a lesbian, so I might not be the best person to answer this.
2006-10-07 12:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by irongrama 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
please do wait until the time is right, it will be worth all the wait.
remember you will not only lose virginity but your innosence also will be lost. so please be very wise in your choice.
2006-10-07 12:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by heycanwedoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋