I am a high school Senior and for years I've seen my friends have boy friends and break up in a continual cycle. So I decided to wait till I was a Senior in High school, and well here I am. But now I've decided to wait till college. (Really I'm just waiting for God to send me the right one) Anyone now how I'll now when it's the right one. I"m not really looking for advice but I would like to know what you think.
2006-10-07 05:28:07 · 21 answers · asked by Meg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe if you are a Christian God has a plan for you even to the person you merry. If you have a personal relationship with God you will know when the one you should merry comes into your life. I can't prove, but this is just the way I live my life. I do feel each day we have we are tested on the decisions we make and we have to live with the consequences of them whether they are good or bad decisions. That really makes a difference in how we live our days.
2006-10-07 05:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Diane H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know most of the answers are going to say pretty much the same thing, but you'll just know. It maybe tomorrow, it maybe 5 years from now. But that doesn't mean to wait for the "one and only" completely. I think you may want to go out and meet some people for yourself. Get to know a few guys and date ones that you enjoy spending time with. If they don't work out, then lesson learned. You have to kiss a few frogs before finding your prince.
2006-10-07 12:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by SHERINA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I guess I'm not the best person to answer this question, 'cause I haven't find my "right one" but, for my experience in relations I recommend you to set your life based in professional objectives go for them and do not get distracted thinking about the opposite sex, as long as you're doing what you like to do, living the life you want to live, and in company of good friends and building memories with your family I think you will reflect happiness and this right person will come sooner than you thought. Enjoy single life, once is gone it won't be the same.
2006-10-07 12:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by elrizo911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the right one appears you are going to feel it!
the right person never appears in the person of your first boyfriend but maybe you are lucky and you will have a great relationship
try not to wait so much cause to find the right one ...is a long way babe
good luck!
2006-10-07 12:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really think thats a bad idea. you need to search for the right one. date some guys and figure out exactly what your looking for. you need to make mistakes in order to know what not to do the next time. its all apart of life. cause seriously you'll be waiting there forever.
2006-10-07 12:36:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you seem to have a good head on your shoulders, the way you want to go is a great way to find what you want. It takes patients, and dedication so dont give up hope. Who knows maybe its me, my point is look at everyone that comes into your life completely differently than you normally would. Good luck and i hope your God helps you. p.s tell him to help me too.
2006-10-07 12:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date for fun...nothing serious. You need to get some relationship experience sooner or later (I don't mean sex). Smart girl...you have saved yourself a lot of heartache.
You will know when the time is right.
2006-10-07 12:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will feel if it is the right one. You really shouldnt think about it too much he will come one day and you will know it immeaditely. Just be careful, good luck!
2006-10-07 12:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asking a question won't let you know only you can answer that yourself. Cause if he is the right one you will know for sure
2006-10-07 12:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kiki 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and it's hard but totally worth it you'll know when the right one comes and then just fallow your heart.
2006-10-07 12:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋