do you think this is wrong?? ok i went out with this guy for around 2 months and i stopped liking him and i told one of my friends that i didint like him anymore thinking i could trust her and the next day she told him and i was already planning on breaking up with him and told her that and she still told him then he told his friends that i was playing him along with the friend i told and now every time i walk past one of his friends or her friends they call me a slut or a whore they even made a club!!!"amanda is a slut" its so lame and alot of my exs friends are mine bc we dated and whoever is in this club thing cant talk or assciate with me other than to say im a slut and im really lost and dont know hat to do
i want real answers no crap im losng my friends plz help
2006-10-07 04:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♥♥livin_life_and_lovin_it♥♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one more thing the guy i dated already had aonother girlfriend we broke up around a week ago and when we were going out he claimed all this crap "i love you" and was all over me i really thought he liked me or is he just going out with this girl to make me mad
2006-10-07 04:59:38 · update #1
i think you need to find some better friends .... how dare she tell him your secret unless she fancied him herself and was trying to date him ... as for the club ... it's childish and the more you show it bothers you the more they will do it, ignore them .... don't tell them to grow, or even talk to them ... if one of your friends is in this "club" just ignore that fact and talk to them ... if they are calling you names then they aren't truly your friends.
my real answer to you is this .... a friend would never call you a name ... or join a club against you ... so to me it does sound as if you need new friends.
2006-10-07 05:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, unfortunately you killed 2 birds with the one stone ( atleast in the short term!). you were braking up with this guy anyway ( whatever he says and does is because his Ego is bruised!) and you found out a girlfriend or ex girlfriend for basically nothing , as she is no friend of yours , as you have found out but you are lucky really imagine still being friends with this girl and she repeats something that really causes you problems.....
So in the long term you have had a big "win".
But a word of advice only ever trust people with information that you don't have a problem being repeated, as people can't in most cases cases cant help themseleves
2006-10-07 12:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those girls doesnt sound like friends at all. real friends dont go behind your back and get trouble started and they dont play childish games to get others not to like you. a club?? thats soooooooo childish!!!!! let them play games and you find more friends, true friends. as for the guy lose him sounds like he needs to grow up to. if you like someone no one or anything can change that. find you a more mature guy. good luck.
2006-10-07 12:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should keep your mouth shut and stop playing the field all the time, another disposable relationship because everyone is always looking for something better than what they have already
2006-10-07 13:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by lateximage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, u need better friends! those guys are the b*itches and they need to knock it off...they are being little kids! find more mature friends than them...im sure u can!
2006-10-07 12:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm very srry can u send me a email plz so we can talk thanx
2006-10-07 12:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Candy Man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋