Again, my boyfriend isn't sure he wants me to move in with him. I told him it was too late to change the mover's dates, so he said "I guess you're moving in.". He said that he won't be mean if I move in because there is "no need for that".
I honestly tried to get the mover's to put my stuff into storage and thought everything was okay. When they got here, they still had his address down and couldn't change it for some reason. They said the only way to change it now is to wait a month, and I have to be out of my apartment in a week. So, they already moved my stuff and it's on the way to his house.
He won't talk to me now and won't return my calls. What does he think is going to happen? What should I expect? What should I do?
2006-10-07 04:47:07 · 4 answers · asked by torn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG i feel for you, what an a**. the only thing i can think of is to take him to court to get all of the money you have spent trying to make this happen. and all of the money its going to take to get a new place for yourself. file a civil law suit againt that jerk off. as far as your things being delivered to his place the movers can put it into a storage unit close to his house instead. my guy is a mover and he said that they do do that. as long as its really close to where the origional drop off location is at it makes no differance to them if they put it in a house or not. Make sure you keep all of your reciepts as proof and keep trying to talk to him. hopefully his phone was stolen or something like that. i hope everything works out for you. remember that no matter how crappy things are things could always be worse. good luck.
2006-10-07 05:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you two were not ready to move in together, my suggestion would be to find another apt quick and move your stuff over there ... try and find friends to help, call it an emergency move ... the movers were full of it, you can change the place if need be, you should've called their supervisor. Good luck but I really think this may have halted your relationship.
2006-10-07 04:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
torn im sorry to hear your situation..your b/f sounds like a real jerk and doesnt deserve a girl like you...i would suggest getting your things and finding another place even if that means putting you things in storage...hey torn if he truely loves and adores you he would have you living with him witthout a question,geez if i had a girl like yourself caring and honest wanting to move in with me,wanting to start a life together why would you want that...girl is he worth giving your everything to when he is so unpredictable and leaves you unsure of where you stand..no one that adores you entirely would ever be that to you... good luck torn...
2006-10-07 05:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is acting immature liek guys usualy do and taking it too much to the heart.. i would just move ur stuff to his apartment
2006-10-07 04:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋