i need someones advice!!!! (seriously i do!!1)?

Question

ok i have this boyfriend i we really love each other we even plan to hav a future together but my ex keeps coming in the picture lik i havent seen him in a while and we started tlking again i dont want him back but he wants me then we were in school and he jus came up and kissed me out of nowhere shud i tell my bf even though i didnt know it was gonna happen ? then my bf is still tlkin to his ex and i think she saw my ex kiss me and she might tell so wat will happen help me plz im soo scared i dont want to lose him

ill give 10 points to best answer

Answer 1

If your current boyfriend can kick the ex's butt, then tell your boyfriend. Otherwise, don't....

Or tell your boyfriend and his best friend, so they can open a can of whip a$$ on the ex.

Answer 2

first of all, you need to make it clear to your ex that you DO NOT want him! maybe you havent told him that yet and hes thinking you do what him back. you have to be strict with him. after you got that taken care of, you need to talk to your boyfriend before his ex/friend tells him what happend. get ahold of him today if possible and explain to him that your ex kissed you and you didnt want him to. talk to him about the situation, and tell him that you told your ex to leave you alone (if you didnt already, do that first) and the last thing you need to do is make sure that your boyfriend and his ex are strictly friends. he can be friends with his ex and still have a healthy relationship with you, but if things start to become suspicious with him and the ex, talk to him about it, ask him whats going on. be careful though, you dont want him playing you with his ex either.

if you 2 really love each other and ONLY want to be with each other, then things should be ok. remember, communication is the most important thing in a relationship. you guys need to talk a lot about everything, make sure everything is good and clear between you guys. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

I think I would tell him before someone else does. Your ex might say something or his ex so I would just get it out in the open so he'll hear your side before someone starts putting their spin on things.

Answer 4

Tell your bf about this ex and what he does. If your bf is a real man he will confront your ex and his ex. That is if he really loves you.

Answer 5

the answer is a male harem.

but yes you should explain it. but tell him your reaction to it. and tell him that it doesn't effect your relationship and that you are willing to be with him etc..

imo

of course all four of you could have a massive ---- or something.

hold on anyway.

if he kissed you and not the otherway around.. if you didn't like it want it then it was sexual assault.

Answer 6

IMO, it is best to do damage control ASAP. This will mean telling your bf before anyone else does. Think what your bf will think if someone else tells him and you did not.

Answer 7

just tell him..tell him that he just came up and kissed you. If you dont tell him its like keeping a secret from him, and if the ex tells him he wont trust you.

Answer 8

Tell your bf that he kissed you without your permission, just to cover all the bases.

Answer 9

tell your ex to leave you alone!!!!!!!! Tell your bf what the ex did and also tell him how much it upset you. Good luck to you! Take care

Answer 10

you defiantly need to tell your bf what happened weather he will find it out from someone else or not doesn't matter you need to tell him because its the right thing to do if your in a serious relationship.