im 16 and almost turning17, and i know this girl for 2 years in my school. we talk and entertain each other.. but now its like different,, we started likeing each other for the past 2 weeks and were dating right now but somehow im kinda loosing interest of her.. its not like i don't like her, cuz i stil do, it just feels uninteresting.. its like so odd becuase last week or two i was like so desperate of her and i wanted to kiss her and hug her.. but like rigt now its different well not that different, i still want to do that, but not as much as i wanted it last time.. i want to make our relationship last longer.. any suggestion what i should do.. and any comment to tell me what the heck is going on, is this like normal or something...can kissing her on the lips make a difference
2006-10-07 04:04:42 · 6 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fantasy is always more exciting then reality.Relationships change.Some grow deeper and some fade into warm friendships.At your age its normal not to stay too interested in one person.The main thing is not to rush,and remember this girl is your friend first,so try to be careful of her feelings.
2006-10-07 04:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try doing something different. like take her out on a date to a place youve never been. do something that would interest the both of you if you were alone and see how much fun it is when youre with one another. ps-making out is always fun, but you shouldnt have a relationship just based on that.
2006-10-07 11:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well slow down on the first date never count on getting a kiss if you want the relationship to go on keep intouch with her wait until she is ready ok call her everyday check up on her don't smother her let her have her girl space ight send her gifts like roses chocaltae and on on her birthday give her something other than chocalate and a rose
2006-10-07 11:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess you are better off as friends, you have been friends for so long that anything else may just feel strange.
2006-10-07 11:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE UP A HOBBY LIKE BOWLING OR RUNNING. AND STAY AWAY FROM GIRLS FOR A FEW MONTH.
YOU NEED TO CLEAR YOUR HEAD.
2006-10-07 11:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no comment...
i think u should talk to her slowly n nicely....
if u can understand her situations, n i thnk she also understand...
talk 1st
2006-10-07 11:12:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋