I once had a boyfriend that I loved so much, but we broke and the things I found out broke heart. I was left with a tendered heart. It took me the longest to get over him and when I finally did I couldn't believe that i did because it was so surprising. After, all the things I found out I never spoke to him or had any kind of contact with him, but last he called and I didn't get to answer because I was sleep, Now, I just can't help to think about why he called, but I'm scared to call back because he might want to start back talking and I don't want to do that cause I don't want to go back down that road anymore. What should I do?
2006-10-07 04:00:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should also mention that I do want to talk to him but I'm scared.
2006-10-07 04:05:04 · update #1
I haven't talked to him in at least 5 months afterour break up and nowhe's just calling out the blue.
2006-10-07 04:07:12 · update #2
ohhh come on you didnt forget him untill now after what he did to you...well maybe you still love him..but try to ignore him let see how long he been try to talk to you back....if he really pursue and you think his sincere well dont be scared of talking to him again..but dont him trust or belive him right away.
2006-10-07 04:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it soundsl ike you need to stop drama , you have built this up way too much and need to come back to reality.
You dont want to talk dont call , you dont want to hear what he had to say dont call . Curiousity killed the cat so keep that in the back of your mind .
you sound liek the type of person who just needs ot know why he caleld so why put yourself through this over and over and just call the guy listen and then hang up.Oh yeah thats right he uses the force and trys his Jedi Mind trucks right!
Please grow up and decide if you want to liste nto this guy or not , either way its water under the bridge so why act like itsthe end of the world and you MUST KNOW What is on his mind BUT WHAT IF .....
Way too much drama for a simple phone call.
2006-10-07 04:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back and tell him to come over to your house RIGHT NOW, so you can work out some of your frustration and make mad love to him.
When he gets there, throw yourself on him and make love like you have never made love before. Then when you are done. Tell him you never want to see him again. You just wanted one more for the road.
2006-10-07 04:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop answering his calls or even calling him. he broke your heart you shouldnt be treated like this, it seem to me he still likes you and that he hasnt got over you as well. if he calls you do not answer the phone and leave it like that and carry on with your life. life is out there where plenty of time to do other things than mop around for him when he wouldnt call you out the blue, maybe his bored other time he just wanted to see if you really loved him. so now for you is move on..
2006-10-07 04:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even call him back. Leave that in your past. Once you start talking again, there's a good chance that it will lead back to old times. Don't take that chance. Be strong. Good luck
2006-10-07 04:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you calling. you are strong now, and you know that you are not going down that road. so what is the big deal, you can talk to him. He may just want to apologize. or see how you are doing. don't jump to conclusions! you won't know until you call.
2006-10-07 04:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not making much sence you do want to talk to him but you don't want to talk to him?? if the relationship was over 5 months ago and he hasn't even tried to get ahold of you until now then the relationship is over it wouldn't take 5 months for him to call you again if it ment anything to him
2006-10-07 04:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Derrick H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shud call him back jus to chat a while and if he pops the cuestion say u dont feel its right and that itll be better to be friends at this time if he doesnt lik it oh well u moved on once jus do it again
2006-10-07 04:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by pretty_hot105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him back and if he does start "back talking" then just say enough of that sh** and if he still doesn't stop then hang up on him...show him that you are not about to tolerate it. he can't always be the one calling the shots and you have to show him that you are a woman to be reckoned with
Good luck
2006-10-07 04:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by brummondgirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him, and don't wonder why he called. If he truly wanted to make things right with you, he would do it at all costs. He's toying with you. Continue to ignore him and continue taking care of you and your needs. He sure won't.
2006-10-07 04:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋