I'm 18 years old and I have trouble when it comes to men. I know it's not the end of the world because I am still young, I would just like to get into the dating game. I'm not ugly, I'm pretty confident in myself, I'm funny and adventerous. I've never been on a date, had a first kiss, or anything along those lines. I can meet new people, but it usually doesn't go anywhere. Or there is something there and I find out they have a girlfriend. I have a tendancy to end up in the friend zone too (don't get me wrong, I'm thankful for my guy friends) So, it seems I've been dealt a bad hand in that department. I won't resort to whoring myself out but I just need some help. Where are good places to meet guys? How can you tell if they are flirting with you? How to keep them interested and let them know you are? Anything!
Thanks!
2006-10-07 03:54:07 · 5 answers · asked by You let me violate you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly it would be easier to ask the ones who know you. You say you have guy friends..I would ask them. There could be a number of reasons. You could be so pretty that guys are scared to approach you that way. You could just be giving off the wrong "vibe" to the guys who like you. There are many, many things. Just talk to a person you trust, who cares about you. I am sure you will get all the answers that you need. If you would like..message me, and I can help you further..I would need a few more details. It also never hurts to be a little more forward..you could just ask someone out on a date..and see how it goes. He might say yes, and if not atleast you gave it a shot.
2006-10-07 03:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by poisonivy4913 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound very level headed and mature for 18...maybe you should look for dates among an older crowd...not old geezers, but in the 22-25 range. You might be able to find a few by doing evening classes, at a local college, or join some community activities. Even if you were old enough, that old tried and true method...2 drunk people meeting in a bar, and lying to each other till you fall in "love"...probably won't work for you any better than it does for anybody else, so don't even try there. You may also want to look into getting a part time job...like in a hospital, an airport, or somewhere that has a lot of mature, but not elderly men.
You don't sound like the sort of person that needs to be told to be yourself...so I am sure you will do fine. Good Luck out there.
2006-10-07 11:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are good places to meet guys?
Any place that serves beer or video games.
How can you tell if they are flirting with you?
If they talk to you, chances are, they're probably flirting with you
How to keep them interested and let them know you are?
Give them beer and video games.
You may think I'm joking, but I'm actually very serious.
2006-10-07 11:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by jayjaydeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them
2006-10-07 11:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them
2006-10-07 10:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋