im 16 and almost turning17, and i know this girl for 2 years in my school. we talk and entertain each other.. but now its like different,, we started likeing each other for the past 2 weeks and were dating right now but somehow im kinda loosing interest of her.. its not like i don't like her, cuz i stil do, it just feels uninteresting.. its like so odd becuase last week or two i was like so desperate of her and i wanted to kiss her and hug her.. but like rigt now its different well not that different, i still want to do that, but not as much as i wanted it last time.. i want to make our relationship last longer.. any suggestion what i should do.. and any comment to tell me what the heck is going on, is this like normal or something...
2006-10-07 03:40:25 · 2 answers · asked by mike s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it sounds like the rose colored lenses are are thinning. You are just getting to know the other aspects of her and learning that you might not be as attracted to her as you once thought. This happens in every relationship. People drop the walls and start letting their true selves shine through. If you want the relationship to last and to be more interesting, you're going to have to get to know each others true selves and see if you have enough in common on that level to remain together. If not, you can always be friends with benefits or just friends...Who knows...life's experiences may make you both more interesting to one another in the future.
2006-10-07 03:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have finally gotten what u have wanted, if u feel so strongly about her dont make the mistake of leting her go, u will regret it, u would lose a great relationship and it might be a while till u can ever find another one ever again, just spend some more time together, do some things that u think would bring yall closer together. go on a pinic or do something romantic.
2006-10-07 10:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋