I am a Muslim woman and as of late been toying with the idea of having premarital sex. Thing is I'm a little anxious because fornication is like the ultimate sin. I think so anyway. But then, one have to move on with the times in todays' world. So what do you think? Should i go for it? Have fun, live life to the fullest? Or be a good little Muslim girl? I'm 20 by the way.
2006-10-07 03:32:00 · 36 answers · asked by xioMara 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm not living in a country where having sex can give you the death penalty. Chill guys. But I do have a pretty religious parents. That's a problem.
2006-10-07 03:40:09 · update #1
Here is an answers from a muslim
You know it is against Islam 's teachings , don't you ?
Every body here ( or most of them ) encouraged you to do it , but you are different , you understand your religion better then them , are you ready to do it and stand before God on the day of Judgement and face that ? what are you going to say ? how are u going to justify it ?
Coping with the world is not this way , you get educated , get knowledge , follow the news , dress with the fashion ( but in a modest respectable way ) , but having premarital sex to cope with the world ? Say sth deeper and more convincing plz.
We are in Ramadan , pray and ask for God's help ,
2006-10-07 03:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a matter of having fun or being good. Yes, premarital sex is a sin no matter what your religion is, or what you believe. But there's more to it than that. God doesn't call it a sin because He doesn't' want us to have fun. On the contrary. He knows that if you have premarital sex, you will have regrets. But if you wait, you will find that married sex with a "one and only" partner is the best sex in the world! It blows fornication and many other things out of the water! ("good girl" nothing.....just wait and see.) Trust me you don't know what you're missing. It is more than worth the wait for so many reasons. I know you probably don't see that now, but when you do get married you'll understand, and you will want to be His "one and only." Again trust me, you'll so be rewarded if you wait.
2006-10-07 03:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The problem lies with how religious you are. If having sex will be the ultimate torture for you mentally then don't do it. Will you be band from friends and family if they find out? There are consequences when you do something that is against your nature. Will the person that is pressuring you leave you once he gets the treat?
Only you can answer the questions of what is right for you. Give it a lot of thought before you do something that you can't take back.
2006-10-07 03:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would not count number you nevertheless did the lifeless earlier you've been married so that's considered a sin yet in all honesty with the catholic faith each and every time you've sex without attempting to have a touch one which's a sin, even then that's a sin that's why once you're baptised unique sin is washed away!. for my section i imagine that's all specially made up through alot of sexually repressed adult males. I wasn't into the full napping round challenge yet I not in any respect were given surpassed the first guy so i visit't choose it.
2016-12-04 09:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, don't do it. What if you get pregnant? The reason why both men and women are to wait is for the rearing of children. That, and so neither one has knowledge that there are, let's say, different experiences (you know) out there. I regret that I am a convert. I wish I had been born a muslim woman because then I would not have known what that experience is like. I have two ex bf's, both I was with for 4 years. With one nothing happened because we were too young (met when I was 8 and he was 10, were seen as a couple later on, and at 14 I broke it off.) Then when I was 14 I met my first real love. I became pregnant. That baby died due to cord problems inside and the man who is now my husband was there for me. I stopped talking to the father (we grew apart because of it) and a few months later was married. 5 years later and we're still married, but have two children we adore. Both of us are muslim and teach our children to have respect for everyone. Heck, when they go with my mom for the weekend they even go to Sunday service with her just so they have that knowledge about WHY they are muslims and won't look stupid as adults spouting only what they have been told without knowing anything about the subject. Trust me, it's not worth it to have premarital sex. At least you will have satisfaction with the man you are married to knowing nothing of other men. God willing, he will know nothing of other women (yeah right, what man doesn't?) I got married at 18. I don't regret it. Now I'm basically in my prime and don't need to worry about diseases being brought home to me. I also know that if our actions result in pregnancy, I can feel secure knowing that the father is there and loves his children.
2006-10-07 03:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In other words, you're not really a Muslim. To be a part of a particular religion, that usually means you believe in it. You apparently don't believe in it. And I think that if you don't believe in it, there's no point in following it's rules.
On the other hand, I am a Christian and my God tells me that having sex outside marriage is not what is best for me. He designed us to mate with one partner, within the marriage covenant. In that setting, it is better than anything outside. Are you willing to give up His ultimate gift to you?
Besides disease and unwanted pregnancy as risk factors, you give out a piece of your heart each time and create nasty soul ties with people. Your heart gets broken. Watch movies - you see the many bad effects of sex. The awkward meetings later, the partner who leaves in the middle of the night, the one night stands.... If religion isn't your reason, at least consider the possible consequences, and there are many.
2006-10-07 04:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by BaseballGrrl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that you are a muslim. Must be tough in today's world where most of the terrorists are muslim.Don't know anything about your religion, but in the Christian faith, sex without marriage is considered fornication, and fornicators shall have their place in the judgement, and will feel the wrath of God.
2006-10-07 03:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question...even though it's against your religion, so no, it's not okay. If you've waited this long, don't you think you can wait until you find that special someone who's not just trying to get into your pants? It doesn't matter what society is doing. I have a lot of respect for you, a lot of people can't say they're saving themselves, so I give you much props for that. God (Allah, whatever name it is you call him) will be so proud of you for walking in his footsteps and not giving into the worldy temptations.
2006-10-07 03:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our life is only a vapor in the eyes of God.
But eternity is forever.
I am a Christian. It is wrong to have premarital sex as a Christian (the Bible says so) and it sounds like it is wrong for Muslims also.
It is better to do the will of God than to do what man call right.
2006-10-07 03:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by tim 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't understand Muslims at all, the extremism that they produce. I would say this, you don't buy a car without test driving it first. How are you going to know what turns you on, if you don't ever experiment? Do you really want to save yourself for someone that you will marry, just to find out that he is lousy or doesn't know how and what to do to turn you on? Oh here I go answering you question with more questions....LOL
2006-10-07 03:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by llltazslleyeslloflltrullblulll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋