Ok. I'm Dead Drop crazy abt a girl in my college. But there are lotsa issues. But I just want her & I think I'm going crazy.
The thing is that she's super hot and kinda shy. I'm no Brad Pitt in looks but I look cool and am shy too. Moreover, this is my 1st time. My classmates got my intro done 2 days back but I dont trust 'em as they b*tch a lot abt me to her. Moreso, they're always around her & I dont get a chance to talk to her.
Currently I'm just another guy for her not even her friend. As this is my 1st time, I find it diff. to go & talk to her & stuff. Her eyes are very addictive and she knws when I look at her and stuff. But I just donno how to go round abt talking to her. I donno what to talk. Please help me. I'm in India and its not easy to get a girl. U first need to be her friend and stuff. How do I charm her? I just love her & dont wanna lose her. People think I'm a loser and stuff and thats what they tell her. The whole college is after her but I dont wanna lose her. HELP
2006-10-07 02:47:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok. I think I gave the wrong title to the question. I was horribly crazy in writing so. But please help me out. Please...
2006-10-07 02:54:25 · update #1
Now that`s a problem all people are facing all the time - the lack of open communication skills.
What will happen if you just go to her and make her a compliment, let`s say about her great hairstyle or nice shirt?
Be yourself and relax, confidence is the key.
2006-10-07 02:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to win her over you need to do something dramatic, something that shows nobody else but you should have her. Try to imporve you image while you are planning this to, that will help. Anyway, you need to start some sort of basic relatioship with her and build on that for a couple weeks. Find out where she goes, what she likes, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, FIND SOMETHING THAT IS COMMON BETWEEN YOU TWO, when you find that thing, take her on a ROMANTIC, FANTASTIC DATE. You need to be Mr Romance so if people ever ask her "why are you with so-n-so, she will say because he is awsome to me! Make her feel like a princess, dont be too sexually forward, and accomodated her every wish on this dream. If you find out she loves baseball, take her to a game, romantic dinner, buy her a shirt from the game, MAKE THE DATE SOMETHING SHE CANT TURN DOWN so she will be able to see how wonderful you are all night. I hope this helps, good luck!
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2016-11-26 22:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself with this girl. Don't worry about what others say to her, they're trying to cut you out as competition. She will see you for yourself if you let her. Think about common subjects you could discuss with her, school subjects, current events, to talk to her about. You might even open with a joke like 'I hope my friends aren't bothering you too much! They can be such knuckleheads!'. Then, she will answer you probably saying 'no, they're fine', or ask which boys are your friends. Then you have a topic to talk about! You can tell her how you met the different kids you both know, and see if you have any common background. Act like a gentleman, be more mature then the rest and she'll appreciate it and you'll stand out. If you have cards with your name, address, phone and email on them, give her one, or make some up (put some title like 'tutor' or something on them to both give you a reason to have cards and to give her a reason to call you for help on studies!).
Don't push too hard. You SHOULD be the girl's friend first.
2006-10-07 02:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by wynterwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't help sorry but i cam tell u gurls like guys who are very easy goin and just be loose around her but still have respect treat her like a friend but not like a guy friend. Be u no one can do that for u. and if that don't work she never like u from the begining. but as far as i see it still be her friend but don't be obssesive be aggressive and make her feel comfortable include her in conversations u having with ur friend and make her feel like she is the center of it all but don't make her feel like ur sufficating her make her laugh by sayin one word to her when u see her walkin and keep it movin keep her guessin then when u feel she wants u and u will and if u don't know if she wants u or not u can just come back here and tell the hints she gave and i'll tell u if she wants u or not but if u know then ask her out on a friendly date nothin major and enjoy bein with her thats the key. and she'll either be with u or be ur friend so really its not a matter of wat u can do but a matter of how much u are willin to do which is not the big things that matter but the little things that u do when u are with her and ur friends or her friends are around.
2006-10-07 03:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya snooze ya lose!
You have to make the first move dude or you'll never find out.
Here is a concept try talking to her, be honest are you the type of guy she usually dates?
What is the worst that can happen? She tells you no?
Not what I would consider life or death situations here!
Are you so insecure a simple no would devastate you?
And you're a college student????
2006-10-07 02:57:39 · answer #6 · answered by xqzme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, psycho, calm down!
If you treat all girls just like they are the same as everyone else, you will have an easy time getting to know her. Just walk up and ask her to go out and have coffee with you, just talking with make things easy.
Imagine women as just another good friend and have no expectations about her or any other girl in this world.
2006-10-07 02:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you took that long to ask the question, communicating like crazy and turning people off (I had a hard time reading much of what you wrote), no wonder you're having trouble. How about greeting her and seeing how she is and what her interests are? But try not to be as long-winded as you were here.
2006-10-07 02:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you need to take a chill pill boy.
First question have you ask her out. What do you about her likes or dislikes. Do she flirt back when you flirt with you.
Second is just because you are in "love" don't mean she give a sh*t about you or your hormone. If she just not into you then you may have to accept the fact to her go.
2006-10-07 02:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be crazy. talking of life and death that also for a girl who is not even your friend. be cool. think how important is that girl for you? as you are from India you better know how important is studies in this age. and being cool from mind will also help you behave normally in front of her and you never know one day she can be yours also. because most of the girls like studious boys for long run. so be a horse for the long run and work hard now and every thing will be fine one day.
2006-10-07 02:56:56 · answer #10 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋