My bf have only known each other a month dating we saw each other around school before that and are already talking about family . I am 18 and he is 22 and my parents dont like him because of his age so we are sneaking around but i really feel like i love him but i have only had sex with one person and it was after a year of dating maybe 4 times and 3 two weeks ago well after a few drinks my bf and i kind of lost control and had sex and well it was hard to keep our hands off each other before it feels a lot harder now i want to be with him all the time. And since then we have forgotten a condom or any other form of protection twice in the moment. My period has still not come and i have a positive pregnancy test only one though.I really orried and he keeps asking me what wrong but i dont know how to tell him?
2006-10-07 02:46:48 · 15 answers · asked by Melanie o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does plan b work at this point?
2006-10-07 02:50:16 · update #1
I really dont feel i am ready to have a baby. And he is a complete guido! going to clubs and everything!
2006-10-07 02:54:23 · update #2
Just tell him!! If you are, you both need to come to a decision. There's nothing to be scared in telling him. Both of you had a part to play in this, and both of you are equally responsible.
2006-10-07 02:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by itsme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER leave the house without a condom. Never have sex when you are drunk because it isn't love it is lust......never have sex without a condom PERIOD .UNWANTED BABY AND OR DESEASES...will happen some deseases take up to 10 yrs to come out......BE SMART......TREAT YOUR BODY BETTER......your bf and your parents HAVE TO get along......all involved have to make the relationship work..you marry the family too no matter what anyone says....you do! YOU ARE pregnant...go to the dr and discuss your options...marrying him because you are pregnant WON'T make the marriage work....marriage is hard enough without having a baby enter into it too...be together 5 yrs married then have children..make sure you two can make the marriage work before you have children...I don't believe in abortions ..there are tons of woman wanting a baby out there that can't have one.....think this way...what is the best interests for the child.?????..then what is in the best interest for you! ????NO ONE else matters....
2006-10-07 09:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First rule of the house: NO GLOVE-NO LOVE. Remember this one its important. Takes the worry of children down. Second, you are so young, you have plenty of time to have a family. Have you considered furthering you education? Babies make this very hard. Perhaps you should let him know EXACTLY what your plans with your life are and see if he is willing to work with them. If not, maybe you might want to put him on the back burner and keep your goals in front of you. No one looks out for you better than you. Make GOOD choices and you never go wrong.
2006-10-07 09:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you have to take Plan B within 72 hours of the incident. If you don't want children you can only get a abortion in the First Trimester. Otherwise, you are going to be a new mom. Just tell him strait out what is going on so he can help you with this. Go to your Gyno and talk to him about your situation, soon so you can get all your options.
2006-10-07 09:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make an appointment with the doctor, to see if you are pregnant. then you need to tell your boyfriend, so the two of you can come up with some solution. And you need in future, if you are going to be sexually active, protect your self. That is the smart thing to do. Then your parents need to be told. That is one of the reasons why your parents, thought he was too old for you. they know the demands he will be making on you. So do not be afraid to tell him now, you did not do this by yourself!
2006-10-07 09:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever spoken about having children? Unfortunately there is no easy way to tell him you just have to come out with it and see what happens.. if however you have spoken about children you could show him the pregnancy test or buy a worlds greatest dad item or something like that - however from your description Im guessing its not something you have spoken about so just coming out with it might be the easiest way. As for your parents well they might just have to come to terms with your relationship especially as your pregnant - Im sure they will support you in what ever you decide and however things turn out.
2006-10-07 09:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? You should tell him . Because he is one of the reason for your pregnancy. He should know your position and situation. Very important your parents. I don't know how do they gonna react when they know it. Better confront you and your boyfriend together to them before some one else tell them. As same as his side parents also. Or you are the one gonna suffer if he will run away from his response . So don't waste your time girl. Actually I will be angry and slap your face if you will be my sister or daughter. Thank god I don't have sister or daughter.
2006-10-07 09:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell him u have taken a preganacy test and it came out positive because he really needs to now its important because if u r really peganant its going to take the 2 of u 2 get ready for a baby
2006-10-07 09:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by crybaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. This will drive you crazy if you keep holding it in. Go some place private, sit down and talk to him. Don't know how his reaction will be. Good Luck!
Although telling him isn't the worst of it!
2006-10-07 09:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Honesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him the truth. Ignoring a situation like that is not going to help either of you. Your boyfriend may start to think you don't want to be with him and it could turn him against the relationship... just be honest.
2006-10-07 09:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by smiley_140 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋