i met an awesome guy from miles away on the internet.
we started chatting and he told me he really likes me
we havent seen each other except for photos and on webcam.
we do plan on seeing each other but not sure when.he wants to come and see me.
we talk everyday on the phone and we've fallen in love.we know we'll meet.and we've talked about moving in together.
but what are the chances he really means it when he says he loves me?
somehow i feel he does.but im not sure.
any signs i can look out for?
2006-10-07 02:45:08 · 4 answers · asked by itsme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I used to do that crap . . . . Meet a girl online, chat for a while, meet her in person, screw her brains out and then change my screen name, email, and even my ISP in one case. Don't give up the poon tang til you know for sure.
2006-10-07 14:55:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things can change once you meet someone in person. The telephone, webcam, email correspondence does not truly reflect someones real personality. You cannot know how someone really is until you spend real one on one in person time with them. It's easy to "fall in love" with the idea right now........and I am not discounting that he is indeed a great person. But, you do not know enough about him to be entertaining the idea of moving in with him right now.
You ask what the chances are that he really loves you.........turn that around.........what are the chances that YOU really love HIM? I think you have a good head on your shoulders and the fact that you have asked this question indicates that you have some doubts about all of this. You mentioned that you were planning on meeting but you say youre not sure when "he wants to come and see me" Whats the hold up?
Make arrangements to meet one another. You have to spend time together in person several times.........you cant build a relationship simply by seeing small webcam pictures or having phone calls. You are building some of the important parts right now tho..........and that is the friendship aspect of a relationship. Its time to take the next step and meet.......see if you can tolerate one anothers quirks, and personalities.
Like I said, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders. Keep your head out of the clouds long enough to see who he really is and who YOU really are when you are with him. Dont jump off the cliff until you know whats below.
Good luck.
2006-10-07 02:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've talked about moving in together, you're both using each other. Grow up. You don't care about each other.
2006-10-07 02:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds sketchy! He can't love you when he has never met you.
2006-10-07 02:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋