Girls can answer this too, I know how I do it. I'm just interested to see what measures people take to meet other people, and start dating and stuff. I realized recently that all my girlfriends, have been someone that I've known for a whlie first. I think that sort of ruins the relationship though, because that means you have to skip over all the getting to know eachother stuff, there's no suspence, I guess, and then you have the same friends and stuff, I'm not sure but I think that method is lame. I'm just wondering what do people do at clubs, like do you seriously approach a stranger and start dancing with them, and not get accused of sexual harrassment? Or...like do people actually use pick up lines? lol just put anything you want relavent to the topic, just curious. Never casually dated, only seen it on tv.
2006-10-07 02:41:52 · 13 answers · asked by mwells0629 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE don't use Have I seen you somewhere before? LOL....just be yourself....introduce yourself..make eye contact at all times while talking to her........if she doesn't make eye contact alot she isn't for you.......don't be someone you are not just to get the girl....your true self comes out anyways in time.......LAUGH..SMILE......alot
2006-10-07 02:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All of the girls I've dated have been like the ones you have mentioned, except for this last one. She an I met online on an internet dating site, and we've been communicating with each other online quite a bit. Her little sister was instrumental in getting us two rather shy kids into a meeting, but so far the connection has been awesome, she's like a more assertive, more intelligent version of me! Thing of it is, online dating can be quite expensive and it's hard to find really good matches. At 20 dollars a month set as the standard, you'd better find a way to get her email address without subscribing. This is probably a one shot deal for me, if I couldn't be with this woman I'd probably still be expanding my social groups, looking for girls who are like me. Hope it helps!
2006-10-07 09:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by minstrel_of_munificence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and have confidence in who you are. You don't have to be handsome, smart, or rich. It's all about liking who you are and going for it. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain from asking out someone you like. If they say no you are still in the same position as you are today. If they say yes you are one step better off. If you have someone in mind that you like, ask her out for a coffee and cake, that way you can chat informally and get to know each other. Dinner is to formal for a first date and the movies (you can't talk) so unless you are just wanting a quick cheap thrill, I would suggest you keep getting to know a person before going out.
2006-10-07 09:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyedijay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl want guys just as much guy want girls. Girl are general designed to spot looser meaning any one with out "real" confidant. If you act like a deer caught in the head light then you are dead meat. Lines changes and it's all the game for fun for casual dater but for you to meet someone for a long term you got to go where the girl go.
2006-10-07 09:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. I realized a little late that I could have been getting a lot more pus sy if I had just been better at starting up conversations. The ability to engage in small-talk is a great skill to have.
2006-10-07 09:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also the same but i have experienced that startin a conversation is very helpful star t c onversation and tell her to dance wit u. buy her a coupple a drinks and tell u r sexy and stuff like that and tell u never fuked or kissed any one.
2006-10-07 09:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply try to talk to them but before that try to be well behaved, like give her a seat or offer her a drink or any kind of help which does not points towards harassment.
2006-10-07 09:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think as you get older
it just sort of happens
i never was good @ picking women up
as i get older tho i do find i am having more of "every dog has his day moments"
2006-10-07 09:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just gaak at them and tel l them they look hot
and they make me hot inside
2006-10-07 09:44:59 · answer #9 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pick them up in my car, and I open the door for them, and compliment them on their looks. There is your first lesson of the day.
2006-10-07 09:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋