########Do you think that there is a soul mate for everybody???????

Question

Hi, I am an 18 yo male and I can't seem to find a gf. I socialize regularaly and I seem to be an attaractive guy?
What's happening?

Answer 1

your time will come, there's 3 billion girls in the world, you'll find one that's right

Answer 2

While I don't really believe in the concept of soul mates, I do think that you can find the right person and make it work. You are very young yet, probably not sure what you want in life and not ready to settle down yet. My oldest brother didn't marry til he was 28 years old, currently I have a 21 and 23 year old younger brothers that are single as well, they're just enjoying life waiting for Miss Right to come along.
Just continue socializing and meeting people, have fun, enjoy yourself. Be confident, smile and relax. Make sure you're treating the ladies right, ie: opening doors, being courteous, not being cheap, etc. Make sure you have fresh breath, clean clothes and don't dress sloppy. Dress to impress. None of that pants hanging down low, past your underpants, not stylish at all.
Do all the things you can do as a single now, while you're unattached. There are somethings that a girl might not want to do or might not want you doing. So explore, make the most of your time. You are young, this should be the time of your life, figure out what you want to do with your life and live. The rest of the details will fall into place when it is time!! Best of luck to you!!

Answer 3

Hello, what are u in such a hurry for, u are only 18 yrs old, u haven't even lived life yet. What u need to do is continue to socialize and keep looking, when the right one comes along u will know it because it will knock u down like a ton of bricks and it's not going to easy when u find this soul mate, things are going to really really tough going, but if u stick in there and weather out the stormy days the sunny ones will be even sweeter. So just sit back and enjoy yourself until she comes along.

Answer 4

Oh it seems so long ago.... I only had him for a little less than a year, and made him chase me from texas to florida and through a hundred different tests of MY love not his. Grandma scowled and said there was only one husband per wife a lifetime, but after 48 years, and 5 mariages I can vouch for the fact that there is a banquet of loves in our lives. Yes there is ONE main course but the salad, soup and dessert are to be enjoyed as well. Heaven forbide, I lost my true love at 21 if no other love was rationed me why continue, life is all kinds of weather, enjoy.

Answer 5

I do think there is a soul mate for everyone. but i believe that less than 5% of the population truly finds that person (including married couples). just keep on meeting women and give the girls u already know a shot. who knows, perhaps uve already met ur soul mate and have just categorized them as a friend

Answer 6

Ask your neutral female friends if they can give you some feedback regarding social interaction, how you dress, your manners, how people perceive you, approachability etc. They will usually be honest w/o hurting your feelings. They will also be willing to give you some tips for improvement. Sometimes, it takes a looooooooooooooong time to find your mate. I know, I've been there.

Answer 7

I believe there is. It is usually when you give up and forget about it that you find them. Sometimes some things that happen in your life lead you together. When it happens you will know for sure. Sometimes it is someone you have known all along. Don't look to hard, just relax and enjoy your life. She may be trying to find you too.

Answer 8

I think that there def. is a somebody for everybody...it just might not be the time for you yet. You probably hear this alot, "oh just wait, she will come around..." "one day, you'll find the right one..." ect ect, sounds repeateditive, but completely true.
you have to keep on doing what your doing, and always be a sincere guy. women can see right thru a fake man. Girls like someone who can sit back and listen, a good advice giver, someone to make them feel cared for and protected...you have to be yourself and stop looking for the right girl to come along...but just like everything else in life, when you finally stop looking, the right one WILL come along...

goodluck to you hun! your so young, I wouldnt stress over this stufff right now, but I could imagine how your feeling...also, are you going to school, not high school, like college soon? TIP: tons of girls you'll meet in class. college is NOTHING like high school, and its actually WAYYYYYYY easier to meet guys and girls that way...whys that? bc everyone is a freshman like you, and everyone wants a friend like you, and everyone is looking for their special someone, like you....

Answer 9

as for the sky there are stars so as for everyone theres a soulmate all u need to be is patient and have fun u still have ur life ahead of u dnt rush im sure one will come at the right time.

Answer 10

You are still young. Maybe you only go to the places where there are couples and that makes you the odd-ball. Since you are attractive maybe girls say that you are too cute to be single so they don't approach you. Maybe you are doing something wrong. Try to go to single night at the club or something. Put yourself out there.

Answer 11

i dont know if there is such thing as a soul mate there is so many pepole out there that there has to be more then one good match for each person.your still young you will find someone thats great for you.