I am with this really hot guy who is the same age as me and i think he is cheating on me and he so denies it what should i do we have been together for four months Help!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-07 02:23:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont let it bother you unless you have hard core proof....Jealusy get you no where in life... If you guys dont have trust you have nothing.....I used to get accused of cheating with my ex all the time but I did nothing...I hated it!!!! But im not saying there isnt proof....Anyway if you lead on you think he is cheating he may hide it more...Let him mess up and then get him....
2006-10-07 02:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should already know if he is cheating that he isn't gonna say, "yeah , i'm cheating" because he couldn't even keep it real enough to tell you he wanted out. People who cheat are selfish and are cowards because they can't be man or woman enough to break it off with that person or they want to just add another trophy to the shelf. But always go with your gut. If you seriously believe he is, than just let it go. Four months isn't that long so it's not like you've been together for a long time, so you don't have a lot to lose. If he isn't worth the hassle, I would keep pushin on.. Really cute guys are the worst because they know that they're cute and they know other girls think they are cute. But I would talk with him and tell him how you feel about the situation, and whatever he denies will come to the light, so don't sweat it honey.
2006-10-07 09:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since he is denying it. my best answer would be to spy on him. use ur friends. just make sure he does not find out b/c if he does things will definately be over. but in any case, trust is the foundation to any intimate relationship. and if you dont trust him after four months, when will u?
2006-10-07 09:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by superman01706 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't dump h9m just yet!!! Lots of girls get he feeling that they are being cheated on, when their not and the guy doesn't even know why they think that. I would try to keep an eye on him though, perhaps trying to get one of your friends... to follow him somewhere, you know like spying on him. Or see if yo can get one of your friends to suduce him, well thats not quite the right word for it, but you know what I mean. Then if he falls for the bait, you'll know he's not all about you anymore.
2006-10-07 09:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by iceclimbers1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much all the hot ones are like that... but if you really believe that he might not be cheating then give him another chance. but if you think that he is or have caught him then find you another hottie!
2006-10-07 09:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by blondie_babe2324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's cheating he probably is. I would dump him before you get too far into the relationship.
2006-10-07 09:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, don't go on at him cos you will just push him to either dump you or he will cheat, just trust him, don't nag him.
2006-10-07 09:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid and go to the pub with yer mates
2006-10-07 09:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sprite said it best....OBEY YOUR INSTINCTS..get out off the relationshp and enjoy being single...
2006-10-07 09:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by missthang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be too suspicious
2006-10-07 09:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Drowned in English! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋