Hey, i need some good advice. So here is what i need to know, if a girl you like stares at you in class alot, plays with her ring, and smiles at you, what does that mean? And you ask her why she was staring at you and she just says she wanted to see you laugh. But also she has a boyfriend already, but still likes to talk to you alot when she isn't busy doing school work. Do you think that means she likes you? Though she has once said to you that she does like you but doesn't want to be your boyfriend. Does she actually like you or just as a friend? Someone please help me!
2006-10-07 01:17:33 · 15 answers · asked by Light in the Dark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can i know if she likes me for sure?
If anyone knows....
2006-10-07 01:25:45 · update #1
well the fact that she keeps staring at u, does kinda give it away, doesn't it?
she likes u. but if she has a bf and keeps sending out signals like this. no. the chance of her doing the same with u is 10 to nothing. that is, if she leaves her bf for u.
conclusion: she likes u. all the signs are there
2006-10-07 01:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by BabyT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take her at her word. If she told you that she didn't want you as a boy friend then that seems pretty clear.
I think she would like for you to remain friends and that's not so bad, everybody needs friends.
I would suggest that you start looking for someone else now, so you can start to build a new relationship with, that's more than just a friendship.
You sound like a nice guy, I am sure there is someone else out there for you.
Good luck!
2006-10-07 08:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by yakity_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself the pain. She's just flirting...she want's to have her cake and eat it too. The best thing you can do is ignore her...put her on the pay no mind list ...at that point she'll eventually dump her boyfriend and then try to step to you. Make sure at that point you tell her, I don't like you that way...then you'll really be on top of the world.
Or you can always date someone else and talk about her all the time in front of her and make her incredibly jealous.
She seems like a games player...stop thinkin' with your little head and think with your big head and find someone who likes you for you.
2006-10-07 08:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by T N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this could mean anything. first of all her bf might have pissed her off so she wants to not think of him and just flirt w/ other guys. second of all she could just be playing around. (like joking and stuff) third of all there is a lot going threw her head prolly when she looks at you, she could be thinking like how you look or what you like or somthing like that. forth of all she could just be trying to play hard to get. im sorry if none of this makes sense ( i tend to not make sense a lot ) but there are a lot of things that run threw girls minds that even some girls dont know about. ( like their friends) and other times the way a girl acts is so obvious. if her and her bf breaks up anytime soon then try and cheer her up and ask her to a movie or somthing. take things slow. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-07 08:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you like her now, but you should not make a mistake and date her even if she breaks up with her bf. You can see the way she acts now before you even start a relationship with her. She is probably already used to her bf and wanted to start flirting with somebody else (you), a lot of girls like the feeling of flirting, so they do it to make themselves feel good. How can you be sure that if you date her she won't do the same to you, she seems like a player to me, sorry if that hurts your feelings, but it's obvious she is someone you can't trust. Be smart, and make the right decisions, don't just date any good looking girl.
2006-10-07 08:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and boys always like someone else when they are in a relationship. This girl probably really likes you but since she is in a relationship, she can't have you. If you really like this girl, then wait for her and her bf tho have troubles and pick up the pieces. That always gets a girls' heart. If not now, maybe in the future, you might be together if she and her current bf break up.
2006-10-07 08:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away she may be good to look at but will break your heart in a blink of an eye. she sounds like a major flirt to me.
Or a bored girl with nothing better to do.
Trust me she is not interested in you but rather to use you i know it sounds harsh but thats what i think and also its better to talk to her be accquinted but dont rely on her as a friend
2006-10-07 08:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by ViRgO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same trouble before. This means she likes you but not too much. If you want her to be your girlfriend then you're on the right track. All you have to do it talk to her more. Trust me. It'll work. Everything you do turns her on.
2006-10-07 08:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstlt this girl sounds a bit like a player now if thats what you want then she defenitely like you and if she kisses you and you know she has a boyfriend you know she will do the same to you but she deenitely lies you good luck
2006-10-07 08:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I really dont know if she likes you or not, she sounds like a player. But I do know one thing, dont kiss/hug her cuz she would most likely have her bf there watching and then you would get in trouble with him.....so yeah......
Good Luck =]
2006-10-07 08:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋