Hi girls/guys.. well i recently met a girl at the bar, about a week ago, and we've been hanging out every night and it feels like it's clicking, just as friends though so far. Well I today I asked her how she felt about this being more than it really was? She said no it isn't and basically she likes hanging out with me and there could be something in the future? But at the same time she talks about a relationship with me sometimes? What does this mean?
2006-10-07 00:57:06 · 9 answers · asked by aj lewis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's leaving her options open, but thinking about it. Just be friends, if it was meant to be there will be no stopping it. If you have to push it along don't waste your time with her hoping she'll come around.
2006-10-07 01:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what she wants. She goes back in forth between maybe wanting a relationship & just wanting to be friends. She definantly must like hanging out with you. But don't be pushy, just give it some time & see what happens. Don't wait around for her though, cuz you never know if she'll "come around" or not, so if you meet someone else you like, ask this someone else out on a date. I think this friend likes to keep guys as a back up, she needs to have someone at all times, & right now you're her backup - not her #1. I would still keep her friendship, we can never have enough friends!
2006-10-07 08:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think from what you're telling us is that she likes hanging out with you but does want a relationship, just not with you. I think she may be talking relationship to get your point of view on certain things for another relationship with someone else. I would ditch her - meeting someone at a bar isn't always the best place to find someone to have a lasting relationship with.
2006-10-07 08:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you as a sort of male girlyfriend. If you like to hang out with her on such a platonic level, then go ahead. It can be great fun. Women make better companions on certain levels.
But if it's rumpy-pumpy you're after, you need to look elsewhere.
2006-10-07 08:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by the gardener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear she is hesitant, may be she is just come out of a relashion & she doesnt want to rebound, but wt i know is that she likes u but she's afraid 2 hurt u or hurt herself although she has great fun with u. Be patient with her if u really like her & GOod luck
2006-10-07 08:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by loza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is playing you. try going to another bar. move on. maybe she didn't find someone at the bar to speak to her so you are her stand-by
2006-10-07 08:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by seekinghisface1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take things slow, and do not rudh anything you never really know a person until you spend time with them on a long basis
2006-10-07 08:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by kamieshac99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes to have a relationship w/ u!
2006-10-07 08:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by mark!!001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't easy girl
and if you aways pay she might like that
2006-10-07 08:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋