Everything seems to be such a mess. I went out with my boyfriend for 4 months, then i ended things because he changed and i didn't love him. Throughout this time i got to know one of his best friend's. We became great friends, and he just happens to be hot and a big flirt. Before, i just flirted back, but now i'm beginning to grow deeper feelings and i don't want them. He confessed he had feelings for me the other night, but that he still has feelings for another girl(my friend). Meanwhile, i am kind of with this other guy, who is my ex. But he is always there for me, he doesn't chase after other girls, and because i'm not ready to date again yet, he said he would wait as long as it takes. I was out with everyone at a party, and my flirt friend said how good a kisser my friend was in front of me, which annoyed me?! And my ex was getting annoyed because he was flirting big style. I'm crying almost every day and i'm not sure why.What do i do?Can someone help me?
2006-10-07 00:50:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to sound rude.. but find new friends, start a freash and be single for a while and NO flirting.. take a break from your life, clear your head and conserntrate on YOU!!
2006-10-07 00:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Julz H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the flirt friend he is trying to bait you by being a player- x him now before you try him out. As to the ex, tell him you dont love him and that you are going to insist that he leave you alone until you can have a friendship with no awkward feelings. You sound young, too young to be in this mess. Then you get yourself together and try to recover from these emotions by staying busy and hanging with non-horny friends. Maybe you will find someone else who doesnt confuse you this way and you dont have to be with out of loneliness and boredom. Good luck
2006-10-07 01:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets see. You're 'kinda' still with this other guy, who is your ex. But you got annoyed because the 'flirt' complimented one of your friends? Do you think the 'flirt' made that compliment in front of you because he knows you're 'kinda' still with this other guy? Maybe he's trying to act like tough guy like it doesn't bother him you're still with 'the other guy, who is your ex', when it really does. What are you crying about? I'm not sure how old you are, but I will tell you this. If you're still in your teens, these two boys/guys will be a memory in about 2-5 yrs. You'll be out of school, working, going to college. Plenty and I do mean PLENTY other fish in the sea !
2006-10-07 00:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks as though your first friend is more sincere and truthful to you than the flirt. Do not dilly dally, take a firm decision and go ahead!! Initial pull is not what matters but the unity of minds matter most. The first one knows you better than the second. Decide yourself. You only can come out of the situation!!!
2006-10-07 01:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur crying coz u know whats right but yet want something else. Ur feel ur ex is better, but u yet want this so called hott flirt friend.Even if that guy is avg.looking but if u like him more, go 4 him i say.ur messed up coz ur heart knows whos the rite guy, but ur mind wants the hott guy which will make other girls envy, thats the truth.
2006-10-07 00:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay far away from this guy. no one really needs this kind of drama and stupid games. he is seeing another girl and flirting with to see just how far u will let this go. so far u know hes a cheater and he is doing things to make u jealous. if u are crying everyday, then break away from this guy all together and see if u don't feel better.
2006-10-07 00:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by skylinbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you're totally messed up. Why would you still want to be with your bf's best friend who has clearly stated that he likes your friend except you're after sex and want to be dumped later.
Your ex on the other hand wants you so the ball is in your court. Search your heart and head, then you'll know what to do.
2006-10-07 01:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself together. Don't let these guys keep hurting your head, get a hold of yourself! May be it is time for you to hang out with a different crew. You need to say to yourself, thank God you are rid of him and all of his drama! so stop crying,and giving him so much power over you. Pull yourself together. Now you see why it is better to just have friends, so that you can find out how they are, and if it is worth your time and energy, to be with them!
2006-10-07 01:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you need to go beyond your circle of friends & date.This could back fire all in your face.Not trying to be mean but you put yourself in this mess & now it's time to get out of all of it.
2006-10-07 00:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-07 00:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by cicho658 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋