I want to ask a girl out. The signals so far have been positive. However I'm not 100% sure that she will say "yes", still need to do some research :) I want to be sure before asking her so give me some tips: what shall I do / tell her to find out if she really likes me? Thanks.
ps: please don't say: just ask her! :)
2006-10-07 00:04:14 · 14 answers · asked by europe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women respond to non cocky confidence. If you want to know how she feels talk to her and listen to what she says back. You can tell by how she responds to you when you are around. This is not a science project. It does not require research. Just be you. Ask her out. Don't be afraid of rejection. For every one that says no' 10 will say yes.
2006-10-07 00:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to coerce more signals and anything else that may increase the odds that you're right. If you feel comfortable enough, do what you don't want me to put as my answer. By the way, there's no real way to know for sure. But wait off and, if it makes you comfortable, "research" a little more.
2006-10-07 00:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many others said really, eye contacts are the most important. I mean for example, just look into her eyes while talking to her, see how that's like. Try to be her friend first, just don't look "down" there yet LMAO!. Take it slow my friend. Ask if she can join you in a movie/dinner night. So first just kinda introduce your personal life, don't make it too obvious or plain simple. Be flexible, you say stuff about your personal life, and then ask her about hers, that way it's more fair for both you know.
2006-10-07 00:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Ask a friend to ask her but do it on the sneak tip. Have your friend ask her do she like ex. names Darry, Barry, Your name, then another boys. That way if she doesn't like you she wont know you like her since there was a list.
-Ask one of her girlfiend's because they are always the first to know.
-Talk to her and if she seems comfortable in conversation with you, then that may be a plus.
-Just ask her friends, your friends or set something up as to where she has to admit she likes you.
Like have one of your friends (remember you are planning this) wait until she comes around and say "Your Name likes Her Name" and depending on her reaction, there you go. If her friends giggle and look at her and she gets all red faced, that's a good sign. If she tries to say "no, no, no," or something like that, depending on her personality, she might like you but just be shy. Try it over but with your friend saying something else like waiting for her to walk by and your friend says " there goes your wife" or "go get your girl." If she avoids you after these things happen, she might not like you but if she's a shy person, that's the reason for her avoidance. If she seems to stare more at you, then that's a good sign. Pick up from there and ask her to go somewhere with you alone and maybe throw her some hints that you like her.
2006-10-07 00:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since no one here is that particular girl there is no way we could advise you. There are no guarantees in these types of things. If you WANT to go out with her you ask her. It is her choice whether she says yes or no, you can't MAKE her say yes if she doesn't want to. If you are so insecure that you don't want to chance her turning you down then you'll never date her for sure.
2006-10-07 00:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only you who can tell..it's more on what you felt..how well is the treatment?..does she flirt with you a lot?always laughing and on the good mood?..or always grumpy?..does she make efforts all the time when you talk together?..
do you love her?..
Is she really worth the risk??
Don't be afraid of rejection..Life is full of ups and downs..if she like you..she likes you..
so if i were you..ask her now!!
she would definitely say YES with all her heart out!!
good luck!!
*wink*
2006-10-07 00:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by kAyXeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile, flirt, make compliments whenever you`ve got the chance. see how she reacts about it. if she smiles back,flirts back,and accepts your compliments,then you should ask her out.to be sure not to be rejected,make this things for a week or 10 days,she will know that you are interessted and maybe she will break the ice,if not ...then you should do it...
but I say go for it.
good luck.
2006-10-07 00:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have been there done that be a really good frend if she likes spending time with u and she tells u lots of staff she dosnt tell other pplz well all the sings says she likes u
2006-10-07 00:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by peckanater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well women like it when men who are trying to woo us we like to feel like we are the only important woman in the world to you so pull out all the stops and treat her like a princess then she will be putty in your hands!
2006-10-07 00:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Angie Cooper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she had a beautiful body would she hold it against you.
dont be a chicken man, serious have a crack,
2006-10-07 00:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by crickeyithurt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋