i know someone who's in a long distance relationship. he said he loves his gf so much and although he's not planning to get married soon, he plans to marry this girl. yet he's cheating with another woman, giving her all this attention and chasing her too. i know that he probably only cheating for the sex, how can a guy cheat when he says he's in sooo in love??
2006-10-06 23:23:52 · 18 answers · asked by catkittykitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
long distance is tuff i understand the reason he cheats he figures what she doesnt know wont hurt her and here is the thing when i was involved in long distance i too cheated but when it came down to it in the end i was married to the long distanced women and i never cheated sinse i think men just need to get there tips wet doesnt mean that he didnt love her he just needed some butt to release stress trust me i loved my wife with all my heart before we got married i just needed it so much and so i got it and when things changed and we were married i havent cheated sinse and its been 4 years
2006-10-06 23:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just curious, this can happen. My oldest daughter was engaged to marry this guy, and she is very religious and got married a virgin at 31 (but not with this guy). She had this boyfriend that would come visit her every month, they had decided not to keep secrets, so the idiot told her that he had sex with someone because he was still waiting for her and their marriage, needless to say she left him. So yes, I man can be in love with someone and still have sex with another. But I call these men whores because they cannot control themselves. Now my daughter is happily married with her husband that did wait until marriage for her.
2006-10-06 23:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are polygamus by nature.this is a hard fact but it is like that 'women are crazy about romance where as men are after sex.'for them romance is a sugar coating with sex as the real thing. if they are allowed(by women folk ofcourse) 'to come to the point straight way, i assure you they will jump at it'
A JoKE -- boyfriend and girlfriend lived in a town and were happy together. suddendly BF had yo go to some distant place for few months. back home the GF got newsthat her BF was mixing with some girl there.
Gf wrote-- What your new GF has got that i do not posess.
BF replied---You have every thing dearie that she has, but the point is 'SHE HAS IT HERE'
2006-10-06 23:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by nsk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he probably has no idea what LOVE really is. Besides, so many (both genders) are more into the "here and now" and don't think of the long-term consequences to their relationships. Sad, but often true.
2006-10-06 23:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by AliGrace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really likes her but not certain that he wants to spend the rest of his life with her yet. If he is too young to commit yet and still wants to explore all options then he is not available at this time for a permanent relationship
2006-10-06 23:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay, I am gooing to puke bec I am in a long distance relationship & trusting him is a daily battle given he's already cheated. grrrr!
2006-10-06 23:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately he gives us a bad name.Experts say it's testosterone but I say rat him out.
2006-10-06 23:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by HIGHWAYSTAR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If one has just one mother but too many fathers, than he can do it and his standards of "love" is pretty much weird to us...
2006-10-06 23:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Remzy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he doesn't love his girlfriend as much as he says he does.
2006-10-06 23:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
keep love and sex seperate, the more the merrier
thats how men think!!
2006-10-06 23:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by bikax1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋