ok here is the situation. There is this guy that I have been talking to for about 7 months. He tells me that he loves me and that I am the one and only for him. Yet he has not came and seen me in six months. He keeps screwing things up like drinking and wrecking his car. I have waited this long and havent dated. But I am tired of being alone. Will he ever show up? What should I do? What do you think?
2006-10-06 23:23:30 · 13 answers · asked by Rosie H. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember that no man is ALWAYS better than a crappy man. He sounds emotionally unstable and unless you really feel you have to embrace your nurturing instincts and take on this sad story, do yourself a favor and move on. You may be lonely but by the sounds of things you havn't let yourself be emotionally available to anybody else by subconsiously pining for this guy. Keep him as a friend if you have to but I wouldn't if I were you. Let go and when you've truly moved on things will happen for you! Trust me I've been there! Good luck and improve your self confidence because you know you can do better.. xx
2006-10-06 23:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In seven months, he'd have found a way to come and see you if you were that high on his priority list. Face it, you're just not high enough on his priority list for him to find a way.
Do you want to live the rest of your life like this? I didn't think so. Dump the guy, move on to someone else.
2006-10-06 23:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like ur really sweet and caring gal but jus landing up with the wrong guy.. better move on in life gal.. you'll find better ppl who are worth waiting for.
2006-10-06 23:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are very young. This guy is unreliable and immature.
If you've never dated, how does he or you know about love.
If I was in love with someone, I would walk, crawl or do whatever it took to get to them. It's been six months, come on.
It's over, move on.
2006-10-06 23:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 09:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
he got drunk and wrecked his car? comon do you think he is what you want .
when was the last time you tried to talk with him?
and what else stops him from moving by you.
what else is in this story of your life.
2006-10-07 00:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by concrete water 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to re-think this relationship, drinking, getting drunk, wrecking his car, come on, is this what you want???
2006-10-06 23:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he REALLY loved you he would have shown up by now...there would have been no excuses. Get out and start dating and forget about this guy.
2006-10-06 23:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him a guy asked you out.
His reaction will answer the rest of your dilemma.
2006-10-06 23:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by byrne4u2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like he's taking his sweet little time growing up. its up to you lady. do you love him enough to wait until he grows up? otherwise, i suggest that you move on without him in your life.
2006-10-06 23:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by bloss_83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋