Does being in love last, or does it fade like everything else?

Answer 1

No, It does not last. It changes to something else.
Love releases certain drugs in your brain. These drugs have tolerance ie their effect decreases so that larger doses are required to achieve the same effect.
Sorry for the bad news

Answer 2

Talking about Love is like going to a church and you say infront of the congregation "I Do" which to me means committment so being in Love will last if both parties at first sight and meeting days explain what made them lose their past ex-girl friends and ex -boy friends and in that you will not repeat the mistake that annoyed her or him so you will walk in the line with her or him .

First if you iron out those problems and knowing eachother better comes in like a catalyt to speed up the already moving affair.Introducing one another in eachothers families usually couples prefer to first show the new catch to their mothers and aunts then to their fathers or uncles eventually friends and relatives and other family members.

For an affair to last long two people MUST agree to eachothers words and beliefs ,know eachother better and do's and don'ts .How to make someone happy ,making surprises not necessarily voyages on the yatches,Not buying expensive things are that has it's time but initially to settle in Love needs giving time for eachother and only those morning and evening kisses tell a lot either when going to work or when back from work.

More So telling a lover " I LOVE U" should become a daily food for thought it rings deep into the mind of a person you love and their should inturn do the some and every problem should be discuss amicably just by the two of you.

About Love fading it does fade even faster than you built it's foundation which is even harder and takes time to heal yet one can avoid it but the eyes of a person should grow like most people say "A man will go get what he missed when he clocks 40 yrs old" nevertheless will it be true though to some extent it is true.Love is like a CAR when you buy a new car or even second hand you will look after it like a new born baby cherish it drive it anywhere you go but with time if you do not repair and maintain it ,It breaks down and you are back on the road walking again but one who has a wife should take great care of them to look good just like the car then the fading part will not be seen any more.

Further still Man has seen it all new cars pass by and they drop the old car and run for the new catch so if one was patient enough they would not have bought the cars that would make them admire the new make.So please get a lover when you are ready for it all now only for a part time then break someones heart the other day for seeing something new .

With me at heart that's what makes my relationship last long so i believe you will too.Time is just less for me to fully exploit it all for you .Send me your email and i will even help you better.

Alex

Answer 3

Love can keep two people together a life time. Love doesn't fade, it only gets stronger. When everything else goes wrong in a relationship, love can save you! I just wrote my heart out in my 360 about love a few minutes ago. Take a look! What I went threw a couple of years ago, was the worst thing that ever happened to me, but love saw me threw it, and I recovered because of it. The "power of love", never underestimate it! What perfect timing to find your question. Destiny sometimes works this way!

Answer 4

The sexual attraction fades over time, as you become accustomed to each other. So you need a solid friendship to base a relationship on. Love is not just the Hollywood/Disney "happily ever after" crap--that's a lie. Love is wanting the best for the other person, not just what they can give you.
You have to work at love, just as you have to work at success at work. Put your whole heart into it, treat the other person as you would like to be treated. Keep growing and learning as a person, too, so your partner doesn't get bored with you, either.
It can be done, even though the texture of love changes with time, it can last.

Answer 5

Are you taking about being in lust, or love. Being in Lust happens when you first meet a person, but love is a gradual and lasting emotion. When i met my hubby, i was in lust, all i wanted was him, i needed him, i don't think i fell in love with him for 6months. We have been together for 13yrs now and i still love him, i just don't lust after him. Love is about compromise, give and take, being there when you are both fed up, and not walking out of the door when things are at their hardest. Love does not fade, it See's all the imperfections and makes them perfections. It makes you laugh through the years, you see yourselves as one whole and not two half's. Keep this in mind, and good luck.

Answer 6

Feelings don't last forever, for those who think LOVE is a feeling, they would certainly get to a point when they don't feel the "LOVE" anymore, but when you decide to love someone, it's a whole different thing entirely, you know that your love for eachother goes beyond feelings, hence, should he turn you off, make you angry, look less attractive on a day or do something annoying to you....You still love him.

Answer 7

Not necessarily fade per se. It goes through phases for me. A bit like an onion with many layers. Its very hard to put into words......well that's how I see it anyway.

Answer 8

Okay in love is the new part of getting together.LOVE is a established strong bond that is made after time & is just as great as being in love.Being in love is temporary to me. Love is more solid.

Answer 9

if you're with the right person it should last.
the initial excitement and intense passion that you have at the beginning of a relationship may fizz out to something not quite so intense but being in love shouldn't.
i suppose it happens sometimes but i like to thing that when you've found the right person for you it's going to last

Answer 10

Love like everything else ebbs and flows. Overtime love grows stronger but at times it can seem very distant.