i feel in love with this guy that told me he loved me and wanted to marry me and have his kids.after 6 months go by he stops giving sex and stops caring,but yet i fell for him even more.
2006-10-06 22:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by bossie.queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a hobbie, and move on with your life,
2006-10-06 23:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you may be low on self-esteem if you love someone who does not love you. We have all done it though. I was in love with someone who didn't love me and it took me a year and a half to get over him properly. The next time this happens to you it will be easier because you will be more experienced. This sort of thing can take a lot of time and energy. I think the most therapeutic thing to do is cry a lot, drink, have fun, let loose for a while, go slightly of the rails until you finally realise that you are being silly to devote so much time and energy to this cause. You will eventually realise that there is more to life than this experience and put it down to experience, get over it and move on. It will not be easy or fun, but just think that in the future having gone through this will make you a more rounded person. More than anything 'what dosn't kill you makes you stronger.'
2006-10-06 23:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Eve D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can ask him why but truthfuly as a man i believe he no longer loves you and you should leave him and find someone else but dont be in a hurry to find the new person and when you do make him wait at least 3 months before you have sex if a man will do that he is worth of a try.
2006-10-06 23:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to tell yourself that "you can't worry about things you can't change". That statement alone will help build your confidence. If he is not interested , don't chase him just move on..don't give him any attention just ignore him. I know this sounds tough to pull off but I am speaking from experience...it took me 2 years to get over someone, I am married to a better man now and have beautiful children.
2006-10-06 22:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by kamsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
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2006-10-06 22:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk. im an analogous way. i replaced into courting this guy for over 6 months and that i thoroughly fell for him. i see him around often times at carrying activities in college and that i nonetheless get that weird and wonderful feeling too. i'm with a clean boy besides and that i'm keen on him lots. i assume its basically one thing which you will no longer circumvent, its been a 365 days because i began courting my ex and im finally beginning to in basic terms recover from the completed component. basically concentration on your new boyfriend and whenever you spot that old guy, remind your self that he's no longer solid sufficient for you and which you wasted a while with him because of the fact he didnt comprehend how solid you have been.
2016-10-15 22:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by janovich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three primary reasons a guy gets into a relationship. Notice I said primary since there are numerous secondary reasons but the three primary reasons are sex...sex...and more sex. My guess is if he is pulling away from you and not initiating sex, he is getting it from somewhere else. Just a guess!
2006-10-06 23:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need time to heal. You need to keep yourself occupied with lots of things and start meeting new people too. Join new clubs and be with interesting and exciting people.
2006-10-06 22:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to force yourself to face it sometimes.
it is not easy, but when you come over, you will be much more stronger than before.
there are many better guys are waiting for you somewhere go and meet them.
everyday is different. enjoy your life.
God bless you!
2006-10-06 22:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by chloe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talkin 2 him atleast once more. and try 2 no wat is his prob.maybe he still loves u. otherwise divert ur mind. indulge in ur fav hobbies. i no its hard for u but try 2 find sum1 else. and yes keep those things far frm u-those which remind u of him.
2006-10-06 23:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋