I wanted to ask this girl out for like 3 weeks but everytime i make a move she back up, but when i start to back up she start to flirt around. That's getting on my nerve, and is there some way i can stop this?
2006-10-06 22:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by Leonardo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they play hard to get because they can, it took us nine months to come out and we spend our whole life trying to get back in it, go figure, they own half the money and all the coochie they can afford to play hard to get and we dont make it any better begging like children, back off for a minute, dont call as much and dont give in to the flirting immediately
2006-10-06 23:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by kalela L 3 · 12⤊ 2⤋
That's just stupid, if she or he will play hard to get just leave it!!
It doesn't worth it to make you suffer, plus after all you wanna is a grow up person not a gamer kid.
2014-05-03 18:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jem 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well in general girls play hard to get for three main reasons: 1) to see how much the guy likes her (testing his patience and level of interest), 2) because due to social prejudice if a girl doesn’t play at least a liiiittle bit “hard to get” then she’s afraid he’ll think she’s easy and therefore the guy won’t take her seriously (sad but true) or 3) because instead of telling the truth, her ego enjoys a lot having several guys drooling over her....
In your case it seems she’s playing the cat and the mice game, so enjoy the chase and try to play cat more often…lol...
Just make sure is not the third option I mentioned...
Good luck kitten....
2006-10-06 22:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is an interesting thing. It is more of a game for the woman to see how far she can push you before pulling you back in again. My suggestion is as follows. Force her to make the moves. If she does like you in some way then you back off and mean it. Stop chasing her, stop flirting with her and carry on like normal. She will be like "Huh?" If she does like you then she will try something first, then you have her in the same position as she had you. Up to you how you play the game after that.
If she does not really like you in that way then you not chasing her and her not following will mean it was not going to work out anyway and you can get on with your life and find a nice girl, more suited to you.
2006-10-06 22:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Raide UK 3 · 28⤊ 0⤋
You want a good way to deal with a woman who plays hard to get? Flirt with other women. If she digs you, she will get jeolous. If not, you are playing the field and possibly find someone who will want you and not play games.
Most women who play hard to get are either hard to get or are testing your patience.
2006-10-06 22:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 11⤊ 1⤋
She just wants to know how far ur willing to go in order to get her on a date..
2006-10-06 22:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweetangel_theresa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We do it out of fun! She wants to know if you have patients and if you can handle her. Just quit talking to her and ignore her, she'll stop!
2006-10-06 22:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by truetaurus86 2 · 5⤊ 3⤋
you should ask her directly..
2006-10-07 00:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Maia 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
coming from a gril...i also don't understand why we do it!
2006-10-06 22:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Stella 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You should get up in her grille :))
2006-10-06 22:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋