Grls:How can u tell the difference between a guy trying to get in your pants & a guy who wants a relationship?

Question

I dont want to give the signals that Im just trying to get this girl Im talking to in bed. I actually do want a relationship. What are the signs of both motivations (sex & relationship)?

I want her to know that I want a relationship and that shes not just some object.

Answer 1

Yeah, we can tell. Generally, if a gal doesn't give it up week after week, month after month, and the guy still wants to hangout often and remains respectful, that's how a gal can tell. Sometimes a gal can just tell right off. It all depends on what you show in your behavior. Guys who just want it, give themselves away with their behavior such as trying to push it on a gal and not caring if the gal isn't ready.

Good idea to talk with her about what she wants. Does she want a relationship, is she a relationship kind of person? And take that moment to offer to her where you stand on the subject. Time only tells.

Answer 2

This sounds like a trick question. I feel you are asking this not because you don't want to give the wrong signals, but to cheat her into thinking you are a good guy.

A good guy is a good guy. One that is trying to get in a girl's pants versus someone who wants something purer is discernible through its actions.

I am sure the girl you like has eyes to see your good intentions. There's no need to specifically what works and what doesn't. Just treat her sincerely and I'll sure you will pull through. Doing anything things such as what you are doing now will only make matters worse. Because you are trying too hard and it shows. Badly.

Answer 3

Dublin is correct.

If you are honest with yourself.

The whole nature thing is about se.x and procreation, not interesting conversation.

The thing is to show her you are sexually interested (attracted), so she can be toward you too.

Dont try to be her buddy or she wont be sexually attracted to you.
Thats the mistake that "nice guys" make, and you will be back on here asking "how do i get outta the friends zone".

Dont do it.

I warned you.

Be a man and get her sexually interested by touching her hands, talking directly too her and looking in her eyes..etc.. be funny and all that dumb stuff girls like.

Answer 4

Don't have sex right away. Talk, date, go out, maybe work your way up to a kiss. Let her know how you feel. If you're trying to get in her pants right away you're going to have a hard time convincing her that's not all you want. Go slow. Show her respect. Get to know her as a person.

Answer 5

A question that's been unanswered for 60 years +. So instead be open to sex... That way you can have just have as much fun as he will. Also a girl with an open mind is easier to fall in love with.

Answer 6

umm Well if you want a girl to know your into her and want a relationship fallow these tips

* Look at her face when talking make eye contact don't look at her chest
* Listen to every word she is saying don't think about what she looks like nacked
*When saying goodbye just give a hug don't feel down her back!

that should do it LoL

Answer 7

first off dublin boy a f'ing retard, second take it slow those who want sex rush those who want a relationship take it slow, hanging out going to the movies after a few dates holding hands ya kno the little overlooked stuff.

Answer 8

We can feel it. If they are sincere girls will know. Observe their behaviour see how they behave with other girls provides some hints too. ;)

Answer 9

geez...why cant i find a guy like u? lol. No really, just tell her straight up....she'll appreciate it.

Answer 10

your not old enough yet...older men know these things..