if the peson you love leave you for another man/woman then comes back to you after few months, would you still accept him/her? explain your answer.
2006-10-06 21:46:58 · 30 answers · asked by rhyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i wouldnt...because if they were to come back thats only telling me that things didnt workout...and plus it would most likely happen again...when they think that something better has come along...so no i wouldnt...i would save myself from the agony and pain...i wouldnt want to be with someone...that would have me constantly wondering if they are going to leave...hell nah!!!
2006-10-06 22:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
Reason One: They left believing the grass was greener on the other side, then realized it wasn't. Then they want to come back because you were there before, it's safe, no risk involved. It's also disrespectful, hurtful, and selfish. It's likely to happen again.
Reason Two: If you accept the person back into your life allowing them the position they had before, would likely be giving your power away and it isn't easy. A relationship built from the standing point of mistrust, isn't likely to work. It's also likely to create a feeling of low self worthiness and lack of ambition that will be displayed in so many co-dependent and self destructive ways.
Maybe it's not that you love them,
maybe it's loving who you --thought -- they were.
2006-10-06 22:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!! If i was younger, when i was still naive, i would take the person back but why do that and risk getting hurt again. Its obvious the person is trying to play you for a fool. So, does it mean that if the person left and after 5 years, the person comes back, you'd still accept the person back?
Love shouldn't be equated with weakness and stupidity.
2006-10-06 21:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible to accept the person but the trust has been broken, and would be a bit difficult to get it back. As long as the injured party can truly get past the infidility of the other....and the unfaithfull party truly regrets and would work at restoring the trust. then perhaps it could work again, would be a looong road to recover tho. But good Luck
2006-10-06 21:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by fpdys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-06 22:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once a person has left the relationship, especially for a third party then there is no going back. I don't think there is enough time in the world for that trust to grow where you could feel comfortable giving 100% to the relationship and to that person who betrayed you.
2006-10-06 21:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the reason they would have left me in the beginning would still be another reason to leave again. And I have rarely seen breakup and get back together relationships work.
Take my mother for instance, she married a man who had left her for his ex-wife when they were living together and they ended up back together a few days later and now he is back with his ex-wife again and my mom and him were only married for less than a year.
It's just ridiculous to get back together with someone who left you, they left you for a good reason, at least in their mind, and that will always be there.
2006-10-06 21:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did once because I loved him, but he's done it again and the answer is now NO, because it will continue to happen as he's showed me, only now things are more complicated because we are married and I have never believed in divorce and it's going against everything I'm about but it appears I have no other choice....
2006-10-06 21:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i wont except that
person for two reason
first :-the man has left u for another option that means he is not reliable at all . in case he is going to find another option in future he is definately going to go for it .
secondly his coming back to you means somewhere back of his mind he was well aware of the fact that if he going to come back to you , you are going to forgive him and accept him .
both o fthese situations are not favorable
i think the person should be droped not accepted
2006-10-06 21:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I still felt the same way I might take them back. But if they didn't feel the same way then I wouldn't. I would ask why they left why they finally decided to come back.
2006-10-06 21:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋