there is this girl that i really like and i started the first conversation succesfully. i want to know how to start a second conversation with her and so on. thank you to all those tat answered
2006-10-06 21:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by david c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same way you started the first
2006-10-06 21:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say start out with either a compliment or some sort of comment about something during the day. Compliment her hair if it's different, or maybe her shirt or jacket. If you're not one for complimenting, start out with a joke. Try to be as comfortable as possible and not awkward, otherwise she will feel awkward as well and it won't lead to a good conversation. Maybe ask about homework or talk about teachers or events if you share a class. One cool thing to keep in mind; most girls think shy guys are cute. You could actually use that to your advantage. Just try to be more bold than usual and the girl might feel special. Also, I'm sorry but it's just the luck of the draw, most girls will expect the guy to carry out the conversation. That's just how it is. So you're going to have to put up a major effort to keep a conversation going. Just keep it simple and try to be funny. Maybe work on improvising and coming up with cool things on the spot. Or if you're not too good at that and the nerves get to you, maybe you could plan out a possible conversation before hand? I completely missed your second question. If you want to make the first move, build up some courage and try to ask her to either hang out or just talk to her more on a daily basis. I'd say it'd be a good start to invite her out with some friends so she'd feel comfortable, show her that you have feelings for her, and when the time's right ask her out. Best of luck to you!
2016-03-18 06:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be yourself, remember to smile. You already talked to her once so you can do it again. Find a subject to talk about and just start talking. It can be anything from social issues of the day to interests you both share to just about anything. Be sure to listen too. That shows her you are interested in what she has to say. Never let the conversation be one sided.
You know you do not need anyones help here (though we are happy to offer advice). You can do it!
2006-10-06 21:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-06 22:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, don't overthink this! If you don't act naturally, it's going to go badly.
If you really can't think of anything, then let some time go by (a few days, a week tops), and then just say hi and ask how she's doing.
2006-10-06 21:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her something off the wall, that you would have in common, like how many clothes hangers are in your closet or do you have any paprika, just something witty and stupid at the same time and go from there.
2006-10-06 21:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by xczitemint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Second verse same as the first.
2006-10-06 21:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hello and ask her a stupid question like you are so good at doing, best of luck
2006-10-06 21:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by R & B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she likes pop sickles
2006-10-06 21:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try by saying "Hi"
2006-10-06 21:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by Leonardo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋