I guess i was just wondering if there were people out there like me. My father is dieing and soon i will have only my sister as my mother died when i was eight. I do not have a significant other and i do not spend time with friends because i work 55 hours a week plus i go to school full time that will be about another 2 years. I just dont have time but i do find that i am missing adult conversation. NOT exxx rated adult conversation just normal conversation in general. I feel alone in this world i never new what that felt like and am wondering if anybody else has felt that in perportion to what i feel. Because of this hole dang problem of no time no interaction i have fallen ill and know take zoloft because of anxiety attacks which i dont have anymore because of medication. I am so alone. Guess i got a date monday so im not that alone but thats one date how will she put up with my schedule anyways just wondering if anybody else feels alone in life?
2006-10-06 21:35:08 · 8 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thomas, I have learned to be ok in my own skin however, when I come home from work I snuggle up to my 8 pillows or my cat Tom; man is no island alone so I can honestly say I understand what you are expressing it is not the sex that we miss it's the companionship. So now I pray and have hope that God will bring him and I together to love one another to no end. signed born2damromantic
2006-10-06 21:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by born 2 d-mn romantic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I used to feel like that all the time, even despite having family and friends. But you know, life is all about choices. For me the turning point was that I chose not to dwell in feelings like these (which I did all the time), and that I was going to think positively (at least try) despite all the crap that happened in my life. Not that anything did actually change and all of the sudden everything was great, no, but I did start to appreciate some of the good stuff in my life and gradually my life did improve. And look at me now, married with children. It's never too late to make something out of your life and to start to enjoy life like you should.
2006-10-06 21:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by q127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. the main serious concern right it is not that immature boyfriend or the mothers and dads. the main serious concern right it is that infant. enable me assist you comprehend a considered necessary lesson my mom taught me a protracted time in the past: God will by no potential provide you something you may no longer cope with. Now i do no longer comprehend in case you have faith in God or some thing esle, or besides the fact that. however the ingredient i'm attempting to make right it is that little ones are advantages. And at an identical time as adoption has it truly is reward, i think of you're extra waiting to have this infant then you certainly would think of. So what in the experience that your boyfriend is immature and not waiting to deal with it and so what if he leaves? you are the only that has to have the child, and if which potential you are the only that has to shelter her, then so be it! My maximum suitable chum have been given pregnant while she develop into 17 and nonetheless in severe college, and while she informed the guy that develop into going to "love her continuously" no longer in easy terms did he call her a liar, yet denied each little thing and informed her to get out of his existence continuously. She suggested that develop into fantastic, and desperate at that ingredient that it develop into her responsibiliy to make optimistic that her infant develop into raised proper. She informed me the different day: "It develop into no longer Kinzer's (her son, now 4) fault he develop into being delivered into the international...it develop into mine and his loser daddy's. I had to make optimistic my son continuously had his momma!" She is presently married and in basic terms had a daughter. i'm hoping a number of this permits. i think of you will desire to save her! You already sound such as you will make a great mom!
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2006-10-06 22:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I do a lot...even more now than ever. I have brothers and a sister, but they all hate me..and them and their spouses do nothing but try to hurt me and cause me grief. I only have my mom.My dad died a long time ago...I take care of my mom because she is disabled...
I have online friends, but no real life friends(one that I don't ever see, but we email) and no significant other...
Any boyfriend I get doesn't understand about my mother...
I used to take prozac, but I don't anymore. I just try to get through each day and try to find things to keep my mind off of the crap that happens......sometimes it is very hard...but I have also found that having online friends to talk to helps a lot.
Hang in there...if you just started the zoloft it takes time to 'kick in'..((((hugs))))
2006-10-06 22:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by lunarbuni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my husband feb 10, 2006 so yes I feel alone. I just keep busy.
GOOD LUCK ON YOUR DATE.
If she likes you, she will date you when ever you can get away. so sorry about your dad. and that you lost your mom.you sound like a fine young man.
2006-10-06 22:09:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world...
am 18 even though i live with 4 of my sisters and 10 cats in the same room and got ma parents alive livin with me but i never felt my mums love towards me since i was born dint have love in ma life, felt alone til in the last of my 14 years i fell in love with ma first guy true love... did everything he desired and a year and half later i left him he wasnt that of a man i thought he was, he is nothin but a cryin baby that crys to his mama, after a year n half of hell not love now am alone again wit no one carin bout me in this world....
so i am alone and understand the deep feelings of loneliness and deperession...
good luck wit ur date and jus be urself and honest wit her...
2006-10-06 23:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me
2006-10-06 21:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋