I am currently dating someone and I am so nervous to do everything right that I keep screwing everything up. I am having such a hard time with things right now. Anyone looking for a pen pal? I need to talk to somone that I can unload my problems to. My name is alley.....my email is alleybug_2003@yahoo.com
2006-10-06 21:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by alleybug_2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you think dating is Complicated, Try marriage. it's worst, i would like to write to you, But you got a Boyfriend. Sorry
2006-10-06 21:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, be careful who you are willing to open your heart to on the internet. Does the word "PREADATOR" mean anything to you?
Secondly, quit trying so hard and just be yourself. Don't be such a people pleaser that you cannot have fun and enjoy a relationship (I learned that one the hard way). Not only will it cause stress, but, if the other person sees you're like this, there is a good chance they will use and manipulate you.
Relax and be yourself. When it comes right down to it, we are all God's creation, and are nothing more then dirt and spit. Nobody is worth another putting the stress and pressure that you are creating for yourself right now. Once you do this, if the relationship was meant to be, it will happen naturally, and you'll be a lot happier when it does.
2006-10-07 04:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bug of your email address it is said we are what we are what we do unknowingly
yahoo ans is a good place to get out of your troubles as there will be many opinions which is their own experiences one of that may click for you here you have very many people who are truthfully helpful
More than geting a pen pal put your problems here there are many boys and girls who have gone through what you are going through they will help you out Even though there may be many ans that is crap but good ans too is found which will help you.
Good luck
2006-10-07 04:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as well as many people make dating complicated because you chose make it so. Granted, you want to make a good first and second impression. I get that. The best way to tackle dating is to just relax and have fun with it. Either you two will hit it off or not.
2006-10-07 04:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's "right" is to be yourself. It's what comes naturally, and it's something you know you can do right. If the guy you're dating doesn't appreciate that, it's his problem, not yours, and you'll move on to someone better for you. It's one thing to try to meet expectations, but if you spend your life constantly trying to fit someone's notion of how you should be or how you should act, in order to suit their needs, it's not going to work, and these screwups would be symptoms of that wrong path, so I hope that's not what you're doing. Good luck to you, and you're welcome to unload to me as well.
2006-10-07 04:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by James L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no that is a great question but i guess if it is so complicated u 2 were not meant for each other so srry i dont no that answer but that is an exelent quest
2006-10-07 04:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by sandbag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use Roofies..it takes the guessing out of it xx
2006-10-07 04:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could write to me but im having relationship problems too.. lol, dont think id be much help
2006-10-07 04:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by mel w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta leave the nerves behind you
2006-10-07 04:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, get a life. don't date, than you won't have that problem. i don't.
2006-10-07 04:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋