And if your answer is yes, what did you do about it? If it didn't happen to you, what would you do about it? And do you think it's right to tell your friend about it? why or why not? Help me people :(
2006-10-06 20:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by Kissss_My_Asss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there, done that, and what a wonderful outcome it was for my friend's boyfriend and myself; however it was not good for my friend and I. She never forgave me, but I had to make a conscience decision that I knew would cost me my relationship with my best friend. I knew that the kind of attraction that I had with my now husband was worth loosing the relationship with my best friend. I miss her still to this day, but I did end up with the man of my dreams. The decision I had to make fourteen years ago to tell my best friend that I was interested in her boyfriend was not an easy one; however it was the best decision I ever made...
2006-10-06 20:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To love someone is nothing.
To be loved by someone is something.
To love and be loved by someone is everything.
If your best friends relationship with her man is going swell, then never speak of your inner feelings and desires about her man.
Even if their relationship is on the rocks, you shall still not speak a word of it.
I just think it's disloyal if your friend and her boyfriend ever decide to part ways, and your efforts had to do with it. Leave things be and if you and her boyfriend were really meant to be later on, then fate will come forth and be. Let things happen naturally, but know that IF (BIG IF), the chance of you and him ever comes, know that you would be jeopardizing your friendship with your friend.
2006-10-06 20:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of, had crushes on my boyfriends' best friends. Flirted a little, but definitely steered clear of any alone time. Thinking back on it, the crushes make sense; of course my bf and I would be drawn to the same kinds of people and my bf's friends are an extension of him. Best thing to do is to respect your friend, ignore those feelings and avoid situations with your crush.
2006-10-06 20:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by shycello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have not because that's not something a good friend does. If I ever did feel myself going there, I would get as far away from that person as possible, that's the moral thing to do.
2006-10-06 20:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love. no, lust, all the f_u_c_k_i_n_g time. Never did one of em though. Probably should have given the way some were treated. Breaking them up would have done some a favour.
2006-10-06 20:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but a girl i know is experiencing this situation right now and she's going through total emotional hell...
2016-03-28 00:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did and now we are marride we have been marride for almost 3 years it was hard at first with my best friend and all but if she is your best friend she will want you to be happy and she will be happy for you
2006-10-06 20:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by alyshiapeanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, see, I liked this guy, told my friend, and then she asked him out. She didn't even like him and he didn't like her... it was cruel and pointless! Try to resist, but tell your friend. If it were me, I would want to know. But don't try to steal him away from her when they are happy.
2006-10-06 20:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had so many girls back stab me who were my so called best friends. don't do it! it wil ruin everything for the rest of your life! best friends wouldn't do that!!!
2006-10-06 20:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Kellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-10-06 20:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋