2nd week of school im gona talk to the girl i like what should i say what do girls want boys to say to them no crappy anwsers i cant do it 1st week cause im on a minus 2. Help if you can.
2006-10-06 19:43:53 · 18 answers · asked by Alan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing first, BE CONFIDENT and just BE YOURSELF.
You can try to talk about things that you (or she) know a lot about (music,sports,etc). Be sure that along the conversation to DO ask the girl about herself such as her class schedule this year, her favorite hangouts, her girlfriends, etc. This will make her feel that you really are into getting to know her, not only because of her physical beauty, and discover if you have common interests to begin with.
Any girl will want someone who is a real person and will like you for who you really are and not for who she wanted or who you pretend to be. Goodluck! =)
2006-10-06 19:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"hey I really enjoyed talking/working/class today; it would be fun if we could hang out sometime after school. There's a really good movie I'd like to see called blah blah and it seems like a movie you'd like." or just go with the flow, like if she ever brings up a subject, say, she thinks she's good at soccer tell her "hey, im pretty good at soccer myself. Maybe we should put ur skillz to the test after school sometime eh?" You kno something casual but she still gets the hint. If she goes along, then you should tell her that u really like her/she's fun to hang around/had a great time etc. Then finally tell her that u think ur ready for the relation. Good luck sweety, youll do fine. Believe me girls choke up MORE than youd imagine. And who cares if she says no. Theres other fish in the sea :-)
2006-10-06 20:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by justmyinput 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound mean or anything but most beautiful ladies (like myself....ahem), will have absolutely nothing to do with a guy that doesn't know what to say or that stumbles on his words. Also, eye contact is extremely important. It shows confidence and all girls want a strong and confident man and I don't mean muscles. Relax and have a list of different topics that you can immediately fall back on if you say something stupid. **** happens.
2006-10-06 19:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsin1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the conversation simple and light...be humble about how you feel about her and what you want...like: I have noticed the way you interact with people and it's delightful to watch. I like how you smile at such and such and I would like to get to know you better can we go for a picknick at the park when you're free. I have an opening in my scedual these days. Don't say anything lustful. You're sooo hot is way overplayed you'll get the see yah and she won't take you seriously. Basically be observant and reverberate what you notice you like to her and what you can offer her.
2006-10-06 19:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Inquisitive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls want guys to compliment them, or show them that you know them, or that you are a gentleman. So to be safe, while you're holding the door open for her, tell her that you like her hair and that you heard her favourite song on the radio last night, lol, covers all the bases :).
2006-10-06 19:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by koala988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find out what kind of things she's interested in. Then, say if she likes shopping, ask her to help you shop for something. Or if she likes bowling ask her to go bowling. Try and have some kind of purpose so that your not fishing for something to say. You'll come across more confident. Good luck!
2006-10-06 19:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her like a friend first get to know her eat lunch together or hang out after school then when the two of you have decided you like being around each other just tell her she is pretty, fun to be around, and your best friend that is what girls want.
2006-10-06 19:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by unwantedname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she ur friend? if yes try to find out what u have in common.. first step is always Good Conversation... dont look in the wrong places LISTEN to what she says wen she is talking also Respond meaning show u listen.. if ur not her friend try to be her friend..most important be urself dont show her what ur not cos in the long run it turns into expectations....
all the best!smile :)
2006-10-06 19:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you feel talk from inside you heart girls love that stuff she will probebly me just nervous with you approching so say nice thing about her and her how her classes are going casual talk
2006-10-06 20:18:38 · answer #9 · answered by alyshiapeanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliment her, ask wasup, and if u like her ask her to hang out sometime. its easy just dont say anything you might regret like u smell nice, dont be boring conversation life and love are all about 2 things giving and taking.
2006-10-06 19:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by mel w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋