2006-10-06 19:30:13 · 26 answers · asked by pretty_princess411 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you can probably expect a huge explosion from them at first. My sister was 13 when she got pregnant. I will never ever forget that nightmare day. My mom was so upset. she threw furniture out in the yard and cried and screamed. It was horrible. But it only lasted a few hours, the fit anyway. After that, mom was just sick about it for a long time. Her child's life was over as child. My sister was only a BABY herself. But my mother (a very loving, wise person) never ever turned her back on her and everything turned out just fine. This is how mom found out. My sister was throwing a fit one day, and she stormed into the room where I was (i was a little sister with a big mouth)and slammed the door shut. "I'm pregnant and nobody cares.",she said, crying. I couldn't believe she had said that where I could hear it. Everyone knew better than to tell me anything, because I would tell mom. So, I was the bearer of bad news.
2006-10-06 20:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, and I hope it works out for you. If you are scared, I would suggest talking to someone at Planned Parenthood, (everything is confidential there) and also looking in your local phone book for crisis hot lines etc. Just make sure you use a phone your parents don't have any access to until you are ready to tell them. I'm not saying to not tell them, I'm suggesting getting some professional advice pertaining to your own unique situation before taking an action or approach. Whatever you do, trust your heart and instincts, don't let anyone make the decisions for you. Best wishes
2006-10-07 02:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by newstudent06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are usually your best councilors and friends. However, if for some reason this is not your case, and you are undecided as to keep your child or what options are open to you, find help on the web, the yellow pages or a trusted and mature person..Love yourself enough to know that whatever you did, you and your baby deserve the best you can provide to the best of your knowledge You are worthy and deserving. Get informed as to your options, be proactive and plan your next step, just one at a time. It will be very hard to learn to be a good parent at your age and pursue yous studies so that you can provide for yourself, but don't give up! Life is always good. God's blessing to you and your baby.
2006-10-07 02:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by starbright84us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a question earlier, your only 15 and the father of the baby is denying it too .... I feel so sorry for you being in this predicament but your parents only want the best for you and they have their own ways and beliefs. I would tell them be open and honest you wont be able to run soon they will soon guess. They will be angry but you are their daughter, They will need time to come to terms with it and then they will want to discuss options. Well if my daughter was that is what I would want her to be able to do and I would give her the options and support her through it. With the father I am sorry to say that it happens alot nowadays they are happy to "do it" but its upto you to take the precautions. Why do you think there are alot of single mums nowadays... there are also counsellors who can help you through this process. It is alone upto you what path you want to take in life
2006-10-07 03:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by angelkidz3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second the planned parenthood advice. They'll do a prenatal check up for you and advise you on prenatal care (since I assume that you are following through with the pregnancy?). They'll also advise you on how to tell your parents or how to stay safe if your parents are evil like that.
2006-10-07 02:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty natural to be scared to tell them, and yes, they might well be upset at first. But they're going to find out pretty soon anyway. And you might be surprised at the support they give you once they calm down and get over the initial shock.
Good luck.
2006-10-07 02:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Judy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give them clues i was scared to tell my parents because i was young you know what i did i purposely put a receipt of a home pregnancy test were my mom could find it so i wouldnt tell her she would tell me.
2006-10-07 02:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by dev'smummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... think about it this way. If you don't tell them then they're going to find out eventually and it won't be that pleasant. Besdies... if you're mature enough to do the deed then you'd better be mature enough to face the consequences of your actions.
2006-10-07 02:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by TheLizard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was scared to tell my parents too, but after talking to them, they understood and backed me up. You shouldn't wait too long to tell them, otherwise it might be worse.
2006-10-07 02:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by theMRS.asof11-25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell a close family member or a friend of your parents.If it is of any intrest then they will for sure relay the message to your parents.Try to go this route.It will make it easier on you. Good luck
2006-10-07 02:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Billy T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋