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me an my boyfrien hav been goin out 4 for like 3 weeks and now he wans to have sex!!! im ok wit it but, he dont want 2 use a condom an i wuz all hell no at firs, but my best frien says she has sex with unprotected guyz all da time and it makes sex better! is dat true???. wut should i do!??

2006-10-06 18:52:47 · 16 answers · asked by PLAYAAAAA DEL MAR 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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NO! WHAT EVER U DO, DO NOT HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX!!!! you will most likely end up regreting it. my friend was in the same situation and she decided to have unprotected sex and ended up with twins and the guy turned out to be a jerk. P.S. my friend was also on birthcontrol. another friend ended up getting AIDS from someone and is no longer with us. PLEASE DO NOT HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX. what ever ur friend says

2006-10-06 19:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by nootherlikeme 3 · 0 0

well its true that having sex with no condom is and feels better. there are other ways to have protected sex if u dont want to use a condom u can get female condom, a diaphragm, or a cervical cap these are female protections just incase ur partner doesnt want to use a condom also u can buy a spermicide that kills sperm so u dont get pregnant u can buy all of these in any walgreens, walmart, well any place that has a pharmacy. but not only it helps u not to get pregnant but u need to know about std's the female protection may help not all, the spermicide i dont think so it will protect u from std's. maybe u can talk to ur b/f and have him use ultra thin condoms they are so thin it feels like ur not even using a condom so talk with him n well good luck.

2006-10-06 19:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Okay...did you learn absolutely nothing from sex ed?????????

It doesn't actually make it better because you'll be laying there worrying about what disease you may catch or if you'll become pregnant. It's not just about pregnancy anymore, YOU CAN DIE from having unprotected sex!!!! Even if you don't get AIDS, you can get genital warts, which can cause CERVICAL CANCER!!! or you could get lots of different kinds of infections that could jeopardize your future fertility. (YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO HAVE CHILDREN!!!)

TRUST ME, DO NOT DO THIS!!! He's simply not worth all of the consequences that could happen to you. If he doesn't like it...tell him to stuff it somewhere else!

If you'd like to try unprotected sex in the future, make sure that it's with someone you've had a LONG standing exclusive relationship with, and you BOTH have undergone medical screening for any kind of disease or disorder. Besides, do you really want to be a carrier for a disease and have to tell every future partner you're with about it?????

BE SMART, STAY STRONG!

2006-10-06 19:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0 0

unprotected makes the feeling during actual action better because its flesh around a flesh. but if you do intend to try it out that way, make sure you're in your safe period (about 5 days before and after your menstruation) or your boyfriend does withdraw or you're taking an oral contraceptive to prevent getting pregnant. otherwise, to be safer and he uses a condom, prolong the foreplay. because when you're wetter, it wouldn't hurt as much with a plastic on.
you've been going out for 3 weeks, it's kind of still too early to engage in doing it. try to get to know more each other and just enjoy the excitement of being in a new relationship. sex will come in the right time, don't rush into doing it just because he wants to. do weigh if you're also READY for it and if HE REALLY LOVES YOU ENOUGH to respect your choice and decision.
goodluck! =)

2006-10-06 19:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0 0

i'm sorry but that's the stupidest sh*t i've heard in a long time.
she better be expectin aids or herpes soon then.
you know aids kills people? herpes never goes away? you live with it FOREVER.
and besides STD's, pregnancy is a huge issue. you know we have so many young females that have babies? mnost of them won't get to college? most of them will live with their parents for a very long time, most of them will have crappy jobs. i'm sorry, but no condom, NO WAY.
And belive me, I've made this mistake before, thank god it was only once and i turned out alright. other than my dysplasia, which is due to a form of virus from having sex, i had to have my whole private area lasered off. (yes, burned off!) and it's not pretty, it's the most painful thing ever. it's a stage before cervical cancer. cause by HPV, a form of STD. it happends to 80% of women by the time their 50, only most cases their lucky enough to have it go away on it's own.
Anyways, i don't think it would be a great life choice for you too, it's a stupid horrable decision that could ruin your entire future.

2006-10-06 19:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0 0

I wouldnt do wat your friend says coz its most likely you can get n STI or end up pregnant why doesnt he want to use a condom? And remeber you should also be ready for sex and not forced into it and i also think that you should wait longer then 3 weeks sex isnt something to rush into. or if you want to risk getting an STI and still not use a condom then u should get on the pill. sex feels the same to me unprotected or not. wen i had unprotected sex it didnt make it any beta but thats my opinion... Good luck.

2006-10-06 19:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sex is only "better" for the guy. It's such a stupid macho thing for them. It makes no difference for the girl. Honestly, it feels the same way, condom or no condom. Here's a small list of why you should ALWAYS use a condom:

-unwanted pregnancy
-HIV
-sexually transmitted diseases (herpes, crabs, gonorrea, etc.)

Do you want any of the these to happen to you?

If he still insists on not using a condom, tell him GOODBYE.

2006-10-06 19:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kaonashi 3 · 0 0

The sex maybe be better in a pleasure sense but think about the consequences...STDs or pregnancy. You haven't even really been with this guy for long. When it comes to your life and your health, you should really think of what's best for YOU, it may not be the same as it is for your friends.

2006-10-06 18:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Dont have sex. Your worth more than that. If he gets mad at your decision then he obviously does not care about you. Dont worry, there are plenty of great guys out there that will respect your decision, I'm dating one.

2006-10-06 19:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 2 · 0 0

Break up. He only wants you for your kitty. Don't give it up for just any guy. ESPECIALLY UNPROTECTED! F that! 3 weeks? Do you want a virus that lasts 9 decades?

2006-10-06 18:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by KimBauer24 1 · 1 0

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