In highschool there was a bet with all the boys that they would take it. Now I'm in college and I feel sort of..well..behind.
2006-10-06 18:40:57 · 60 answers · asked by Anastacia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure you find the right person... Never have regrets in life.
2006-10-06 18:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Satchmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really i know people that are virgins and they are different ages the oldest is 34 n well i dont think because of a bet u need to feel the pressure of not been one u'll lose it when Ur ready n nobody can say when u should lose it so just keep in mind that if u are not ready don't do it or else u'll feel bad later on. don't feel behind feel proud not many people these days are virgins n well they pretty much lost their virginity to some one that they don't even know or it was cause they had someones pressure to do it. so think about what u want to do n well good luck.ooh something else once u lose ur virginity u have to go every year to the doctors office to get checked so i would say have fun n dont lose it.
2006-10-06 18:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of was in the same situation, one day I woke up I was 19 and I had never ever had had a first kiss, I felt so behind!!! so I started improving a lot and at 21 I left my virginity because I thought if not i would have to wait more ( and I was wright about that) but I did it with the wrong person (and I knew it)
I should not have done it, I regret it a lot because now I try to skip sex a lot because I always remember my first time
2006-10-06 18:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex before marriage equals emptiness and pain. I waited until I was 21. I won't lie. Sure, the physical act was wonderful. However, the mental and emotional void was one of the greatest feelings of depravation I've ever experienced. I wish I'd waited for marriage.
Stop thinking of your virginity as something you need to get over or are required to give away at a certain age.
Don't objectify or give your virgin status a life of its own. It is a part of a decision you have made and therefore a part of you. Treaure your virginity and save yourself for someone who is committed enough to marry you. In the long run, if you choose wisely, you won't regret it.
2006-10-06 18:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
80 is not too old to be a virgin. you are NEVER too old to be a virgin. after all, I'm 28! I'm waiting for marriage. It' pretty admirable that you waitied this long. you will have more self esteem and no diseases no babies (hey! condoms break, pull out isn't as effective as you think, birth control isn't 100%, and so on) and God only knows how many girls your partner has slept with! trust me, being a virgin definitly has its perks! plus if your husband is bad in bed you'll never have a clue. virginity isn't something you can pick up at target and your husband will appreciate it. you wont' be comparing your husband to any of your boyfriends, wishing he did this like your first on or that like your second one and when a fight comes you won't ever say that your last boyfriend was better in bed. because you honestly wont' have any clue HOW good in bed your last boyfriend was. because you never slept with him.
2006-10-06 18:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly! You don't realize how young 19 is until you are a few years beyond that. You don't go out and lose your virginity just because you've reached a certain age. Trust me, make sure the person you make love with for the first time really cares about you.
2006-10-06 18:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I was a nerd. I was able to lose my virginity when I finished my 4 year university degree at 19 (I said I was a nerd!).
I regreted it because I didn't love her.
You should do it only with the person you love, even for guys.
You will regret it if you don't wait. Remember sex is individual choice not group choice! So, what if all your friends have had sex. It is how you feel not them! Don't ever let them push you to have sex.
Good luck!
2006-10-06 18:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by The Ultimate Nerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Please stay a virgin until you are married. Believe me, you will be glad you did in many ways. Everyone I know who is sexually active outside of marraige has had problems. Some have gotten pregnant then had to get married, give the kid up for adoption, etc (not a good thing for all involved). Some have gotten STD's. Don't know anyone who's gotten aids yet, but some I know have gotten syphillus or herpes which aren't good either. It also messes with your mind as well as your emotions to be sexually involved with many people. Ask anyone who will be really honest with you about that and most will say they regret breaking up with people they have had sex with.
2006-10-06 18:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that is to old I was 21 when I lost my virginity and my sister was 23. I just waited until I found someone I wanted to share that part of myself with.
2006-10-06 18:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 too young???!! I guess a GUY losing his virginity at 22 seems ancient huh!!!??? Keep it because your saving it for the right guy. Dont give it up to someone you wont remember. Your still a virgin for a reason. Its something to be proud of. Listen to that Lyfe Jennings song called S.E.X. Its true. Keep your head up/legs closed :-)
2006-10-06 18:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as you're not a 40-year-old virgin. 19's actually a pretty decent age cuz at least you're out of high school. That movie was hilarious!
2006-10-06 18:52:21 · answer #11 · answered by La Femme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋