I'm 18 and I've had crushes on girls since.... forever. I told my best friend this and she says it's nothing to worry about since they're just crushes. I'm afraid they may be something more. I have had one serious relationship with one guy (the only guy I slept with) and I was seriously in love with him so i know that i am sometimes attracted to men.
On the other hand I love women and when I am being honest with myself I think I enjoy men sexually but could never feek emotionally intimate as well the way I can with girls. All of my crushes are on girls.
Basically, I hate the title of "bisexual" because everyone thinks that's just another word for s*lut. I don't know what to do!
2006-10-06 18:40:56 · 11 answers · asked by Yelena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And no I don't need anyone to save me- I very much believe in God and I don't feel like I am a bad person for being attracted to both sexes. I am just not sure how to deal with it is all !
2006-10-06 18:50:32 · update #1
Learn to accept yourself for who you are. Who says your a s-lut for being bisexual? Thats rediculous. Just learn to be comfortable with who you are. The sooner you do this, the better off you will be. Best wishes.
2006-10-06 18:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like having sex with men then you are definately not a lesbian. you like strong liberated women and there is no harm in that. it is true that men can never be emotionally in sync with us. only a woman will know another woman well. this is a common connection all women have. it is not a crush. it is an understanding. i think you have nothing to worry about. and as for bi sexuals, i think those are people who are just kidding themselves.
2006-10-07 01:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I am the same and I don't label myself. I'm 33 but when I was in 3rd grade I had my first kiss with my neighbor Jenny. Ive always thought girls were pretty. I do enjoy boys and being with girls. You can't help who you are attracted to so please don't spend your life pretending to be something you are not. It is just not fair to yourself. If you dig chicks and dig guys, do what feels right at the time and don't worry about the labels. It is your life after all.
2006-10-07 01:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read an articule once and it said that most all people have thoughts like that about the opposite sex. look to your heart. but it is best to marry.a man.. it would be a long rough road when it comes to being with both. are just girls.. take the right road.you will be better off.in the long run.I wish you the best which ever way you choose.
2006-10-07 01:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep down inside you, and only you know how to deal with it....I can only speak for myself; I believe being lesbian has a bad effect on karma and I don't live it even though I'm just lesbian andf don't like men.
And I have enough to do with myself without running in lesbian bars....maybe its the age...
2006-10-09 13:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your question. Bisexual doesn't mean slut. You just understand what you like.
2006-10-07 01:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by krazy_b81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like you like a little bit of both. you like the sex from men but you are attracted to girls.
2006-10-07 01:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a lost person who needs a Savior.... call upon the Lord to help you and reveal His truth to you.
At one time or another we have all gone astray....
2006-10-07 01:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r young enjoy both until u find the right one for u gl
2006-10-07 01:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by howcor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!
2006-10-07 01:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by SinCity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋