I have gone out with three guys recently and this has happened with tthe three of them. We start dating, they call and everything goes well I don´t sleep with them, an eve dough we get along and like each other some how they leave me for someone else. The three time a girl has come out of noting and gotten the serious relationship I didn´t , why is that? The funny thing is that the girls they leave me for don't even meassure up to me , is it me, am I doing something wrong? I don´t get it help me please?
2006-10-06 18:36:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, your doing just fine. They just lose out on YOU. The right guy will come along, and see you for who and what you are, and be happy that you didnt come up off of the "Nookie". You will come across as more attractive because you dont view sex as something casual. Stay true to yourself girly. Proud of you!
2006-10-06 18:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by diaz276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all these idiot guys want from you, then you are better off without them. Do not give yourself away. You will destroy you future that way.
Get a good education, and find a job that you will enjoy going to everyday. Be true to yourself, and you will find the right guy who will appreciate marrying a woman who waited for him!
2006-10-07 01:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sentinel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hold on yourself, perhaps you just go overboard the first time & the guys think that you are an easy catch. just move slowly. i am a guy & i tell you guys like it when the girl is hard to catch, they then feel a sense of satisfaction (just like holding a trophy) nut again just don't be too difficult otherwise guys then again lose interest. & lastly just don't care. there are many things in life besides boys. isn't it. you can think of your career, family, frtiends & much much more.
2006-10-07 01:43:15 · answer #3 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normaly guys love to sleep with gals, they dont bother how smart or beautiful she is, because u dont sleep with them which other gals do u r loosing out, but be firm one day u will get right guy who dont beleive like that who beleives in u not in sexual relationship. all the best.
2006-10-07 01:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by bhagchand m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they leave because you're not sleeping with them, i'm not saying that so you will, i'm saying it because that's how most guys are. think of it as you're weeding out the dogs from the ones that want a serious relationship.
2006-10-07 01:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess, the girls they leave you for gave them sex?
Typical men.
You don't need them anyways. Find a good one that stays for YOU. Don't be impatient. You are doing NOTHING wrong.
Good Luck!
:)
2006-10-07 01:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Boodie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just go wit one guy and stay wit one guy thats what u get for going out wit three guys then they get attracted to other females just once u find a guy go talk wit one guy only and stay wit one guy
2006-10-07 01:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's because you're a sorority girl with poor grammar.
2006-10-07 01:39:02 · answer #8 · answered by stacks 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THE PROBLEM IS NOT YOU AT ALL. IT THAT YOU ARE
NOT GIVING THEM WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR THAT
SEX. AND THE TRUTH OF MATTER IS REALLY IS THERE
LOST NOT YOURS. YOU WILL FIND THE SPECIAL SOMEONE
THAT WILL LOVE AND APPRECATE YOU. THE ONE THEY
ARE CHOOSE ARE GIVE IT UP.
2006-10-07 01:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry .there are not the right guys .its not you its them so don't lose sleep over there lost...and I know woman are looking for love.. (But Why)......
2006-10-07 01:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋