but they dont talk to you.. they talk to you online so much like you know each other, like you are great friends but in school he sees you and all he does is nods at you.. he nods like his heads about to fall off and this is 10 months after he knows you, he starts nodding at you and recongnizing your exsistance. He doesnt talk much with other girls so i would understand. but is this being shy? should i wait to see what happens? Our relationship/friendship does progress really slowly.. and i think thats the only way it will?
2006-10-06 18:30:46 · 9 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yah they are so dang cute! but he seems interested in you, sooooooooo just continue to be really friendly and put in the extra effort so he takes a hint and then he'll open up to you more, I promise!! :)
2006-10-06 18:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a shy guy, I will give you a tip about us. Even though we may we've talked on-line for months, and we know each other so well. Shy guy's have this huge insecurity. You like us on-line, but we worry if we actually walked up to you with other people around, and started to act like a friend, you might be embarrassed. Or worst, you'd tell us to get lost. And we would want to go and live in a cave. So, just go up to him grab his hand or better yet give him a hug. Be just as friendly as you are on-line. There's no way his mind can tell him, the only time you like him, is when he's not actually in the room. He will start talking with you in public after-wards. And you will have give him a great memory. Trust me.
2006-10-07 02:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by charley128 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys are the ones who often genuinly like the girl but have trouble talking to her because he really really likes her and gets nervous around her thats real love and why should the guy always have to be the one who makes the first moves sometimes he just need a little push to get going and talk you you know its not easy speaking with a girl you have a crush on
2006-10-07 01:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by the Juggernaut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hug him and be "The friend", that will break the ice between you two. He is shy, but likes you (maybe as a friend) or as a Girlfriend. Shy guys need time to loosen up
Shy guys are subconsciously afraid that in real life they won't "live up" to the expectations that they had on IM, because on IM, you can be yourself
2006-10-07 02:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy like that but my girl is out of my reach right now
at school it may help if youre the one approaching him and being outgoing, sometimes that may help depending on the guy
i am a pretty outgoing nice guy but i am really really shy around the girl i like and she isnt as outgoing around me so its not working that well
2006-10-07 01:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by brian f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over and talk to him about something you guys were talking about the previous night on IM.
"Hey you know I was thinking about what you said about blah blah blah, and I read in blah blah blah, that you're right about blah blah blah, but did you know blah blah blah."
There you go. Bridge the gap. If he doesn't respond well, then forget him.
2006-10-07 01:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him. Whammo it's now in full swing.
2006-10-07 01:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i am like the guy u are explaining... just go up to him and give him a hug... it worked like a charm on me!!
2006-10-07 01:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by airjmeder92 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wait and see what happens
2006-10-07 01:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Cutie NM 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋