how can i b close 2 him ? how can i make him realise about my feeling & what if his girl friend also loves him & she starts to hate me she is my good friend i can't lose her.What if she thinks i stole his boyfriend !! HELP . the guy is v.serious about his girlfriend & not even knows about my feeling !!!!!!!! HELP PLEASE PLEASE
2006-10-06 18:26:50 · 15 answers · asked by smart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh girl, I know what ur going through. The same thing girls and guys have been facing since forever. Believe me, I feel your pain, but I have to give you the best advice here. Please back off from him because if you continue to pursue him he will resent you for it and you may lose his friendship forever. Also can lose her friendship too! I know you feel that you love him and it hurts alot right now but if you will accept thier relationship and look at him and treat him only as a friend now, then you will keep 2 friends! Also being that you have much love in your heart, I know that another great guy will come along soon to take your mind off of that other boy. Good Luck and my heart is with you! J
2006-10-06 18:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common... Its called a love triangle. Its a bad deal to get into. Since you are on the outside, Id stay away. The more you stay your distance the more both of them will draw to you.
Keep well away even if you can't take it anymore. Trust me. You need to make new friends... This is a NO win situation at this time.
You not oly could loose your friend, but you WILL loose them, and it will not be good. Some love triangle end badly... I knew of one that ended in death.
Be carefull here. Keep away from iot and find other friends fast !
You are young yet. Need a guy... Look nice, act nice, dress nice, and play HARD to get !
It works because people always want what they cannot have !
I will say it one more time just to be sure you understand.
Keep well away from this... They will want you when you exit this triangle, and there sre other guys out there. Keep away from it.
DANGER DANGER WILL ROBINSON !!!!!
2006-10-13 20:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Skin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an emotionally complex situation. I know what thats like. All I can say is that YOU CANT MAKE ANYONE LOVE YOU. Period. If he loves his girlfriend there is nothing that you or anyone else can do to change that, no matter how close you are to him. I would suggest being chill about it until the situation between them is resolved. And if they break up, who knows? maybe something can happen then. But as long as he's into her you might want to back off and don't forget that there are other guys out there who are just as amazing, maybe even more so, and totally available :)
2006-10-06 18:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by sweetam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Day! You're problem is too serious. You said that she is your friend. You know what, for me, friendship is a treasure that I will cherish forever. Which is which, your friend or your stupid feeling in a certain guy? You should choose between of them. if I were you, I will choose my friend caz friend is worth of dying. Besides he is not only a guy in this world. Choose the 2 choices, but in choosing use your brain not your heart. Ok?
2006-10-06 18:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by psychedelic_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT A TRICKY ONE, YOU CAN LOSE A GOOD FRIIEND
AND THIS YOUNG MAN, BECAUSE REGARLESS OF HOW
YOU FEEL ABOUT HIM HE WITH HER. AND IF YOU TRY
TO GET BETWEEN THEM YOU COULD LOSE BOTH OF
'THEM SOMETIME IT BETTER TO LEAVE IT ALONG. I KNOW
THAT MAY BE NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR. BUT
TRUSTME IN THE LONG RUN IT WILL BETTER. AS YOU
KNOW MEN COME AND GO. BUT FRIENDS DO NOT. THINK
ABOUT IT.
2006-10-06 18:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone let them work it out. if he's not availible he is not availible. you should NEVER steal another girl's guy. if the relationship doens't work out and he figures out he's interested in you he'll figure out how to find you. the fact that you want someone else's man speaks volumes aobut your character. leave him alone!.datable girls just don't do that to each other. keep one more thing in mind: men are not property. they are going to do what the are going to do. regardless of what you want them to do. if they ask what you think, by all means, then you can offer an oppinion. until then keep your oppinions to yourself.
2006-10-06 18:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to bo with her let him...dont interfear....if he leaves her then sure go for him...I think u should wait till he is done and over her....if not....u guys might have ur lil thingy going on and then he just be playing u both
2006-10-06 18:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by J D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him... what's more important... taking a chance on a relationship that might not work out or risking ending a friendship? ur probably really young... just focus on his flaws and look for a better available man!
best of luck
2006-10-06 18:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no use coz he will be overlooking you. but you can give it a try by being more close to him, showing your true feelings in a friendly way. then slowly getting to know him & if you are trully dedicated he should feel your true feelings himself
2006-10-06 18:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, or wait til they split!
2006-10-07 23:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by bulldog7726 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋