well there is this girl like i said she and i are both 15 years old... we dont realy talk much but... i can't seem to get her off my mind... also im realy shy in this type of situation...
if you have any questions that you think can help you answer this question please message me Thanks alot!
2006-10-06 17:28:26 · 14 answers · asked by Dark-soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fifteen,......ooh, ouch,........such a tender age!! Well, for starters, what does she like, I mean, her fav. colour?
Second, what's her fav. Cologne for men?
What *other* things is she into? i.e., soccor, golf, hiking/biking, skating, nature, things of this sort, or does she prefer the fine arts: ballet, museums, art, orchestras, etc. Other than her fine looks, you must know ~alittle~ about her right? Or else you wouldn't be interested, correct?
I would make her a nice card with her fav. colour and fav. things on it, and *lightly* spray on it her fav. mens' Cologne with *simple* words like, write a short poem with a play on words on the word sundae, and ask her if she'd like to share one with you. Your treat! (Like, on Sunday)
Girls like a clever guy who is thoughtful after them!
2006-10-06 18:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to her, but don't start off with stupid pick up lines. Alot of girls hate "pick up lines". The main thing is to have confidence in yourself and talk confident...... acting unsure or with no self-esteem is the worst thing you can do. Just go for it! What is the WORST that could happen? She would say no? Hey, even if she did say no, which i don't think she would if you are confident in yourself, there would still be a WORLD of girls out there. Millions and millions!!! i say go for it bro. If NOTHING else it is good experience for you in future situations. Good luck.
2006-10-06 17:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a group of your buddies and see if her and her friends want to meet up at the mall or movies. You will feel more secure and less awkward in a group, your first time out.
If things go well "Rock On" if not you got your boys with ya and it is just another Saturday night! Good Luck.
2006-10-06 17:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Import Beer Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want to ask her out dont just go up to her and be like hey go out with me bc shell probably think your a stalker so try talking to her for a few days just go up to her and ask her something and then start talking from there.ask her about her classes and how there going then after u have talked to this girl a few times so you r sure that u like her then ask he to a movie or dinner (being your treat) bc that's flattering. k good luck
2006-10-06 17:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shy because she is pretty??
Or because you are afraid of rejection??
Here are two answers that i could come up with ( me being a girl)
First off....if you like her because she is pretty......ask her out and tell her you think she has a GREAT personality....and that you have NEVER met ANYONE like her.....tell her that you are REALLY into her....her looks....her smile.....anything that you like about her......
if you cant do that face to face.....drop some hints.....girls like to be complimented........
now, if you are nervous about being rejected........just prepare for the worst........I mean EVERYONE gets rejected......hopefully in your case....you wont.....
anyway....if she DOES reject you, just say you would like to get to know her a little more....or call her, or.....go to the movies......
Good luck, and i hope this helps.......
2006-10-06 17:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by i lOVE M0NKEYMAN!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her first. Get to know her inner beauty as well. If you still like her after awhile and have gotten to know her, a note in her locker with or without a poem so that you can talk to her in private. Then just ask her out. Good luck.
2006-10-06 17:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by joe19 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should get to know her first. try instant messaging her. dude.. im a fifteen year old girl. i would be freaked if a boy that i dont even talk to asked me out... so get to know her... then if you think that she is your type. then ask her out... but ask her out in person... lol... it takes guts but girls will more likely say yes especially if they like you back.... haha... good luck
2006-10-06 17:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Frozen_Time 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and just have a friendly conversation and then get to know her better so she feels comfortable around you and once you are ready it will be easier to ask her.
2006-10-06 17:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Water 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up another 3 years, U will know.
2006-10-06 17:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds lame, but just go for it. In a few years you'll be wishing that you hadn't taken this dating stuff so seriously back when it didn't really matter. have fun while you can.
2006-10-06 17:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by smoothsteve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋