How can I make my boyfriend understand?

Question

My boyfriend broke up with me a couple of months ago b/c he went on vacation, and while he was gone I went to drink w/ some of my girlfriends. My boyfriend rarely allowed me to hang out w/ my friends, so while he was gone I thought I should at least spend some time with them. When he got back I told him I didnt drink with them, but somehow he found out I did and was very angry. He had always told me to never lie to him because that would be what would end our relationship. And it did
Over past two months we have gone out a few times and gotten back together as a couple for a few days, but then all of a sudden he will be like "I keep thinking about what you did and it makes me so mad and I don't want to be with you"
He means the world to me and I love him more than anything. I have never hurt so much in my entire life and I have told him what he means to me and how badly it hurts me and that I would never ever lie to him again. He refuses to give me a second chance. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

He's not the One.

You like Drinking with your Friends, and he doesn't let you??? What is with that!??? Not a Good Relationship situation for Starters. You should always be allowed to do what ever makes you happy.
You felt you had to lie to him!?? Why? If you can lie to him about something as mundane and trivial as going out with your friends... when he was off doing what ever he was doing... then what should stop you from not telling him about Anything else!? You don't feel you can trust him? Or don't feel safe with him? Or just feel that your better than him, so can get away with it??
Either way... you sound like you've got a Good Friendship... but you both need to work on your relationship values, and both find someone who relates better to each others needs.