there is this guy and i dont know if he likes me
my friend says he does but i don tknow
he flirts alot but he does some flirting with other girls
but whenever he can he walks with me and sits by me
and also talks to me
but he doesnt at lunch
please help
i know you see alot of these questions
but this is actually pretty serious
his friends somehow "found out" about me liking him
and i didnt tell anyone who i didnt trust
they teased me about it and then i just blew up and cussed at them
but they still did it
im wondering if they did it cause:
-they actually knew i liked him
-or if they were actually were teasing him
i have given him like since the beginning of school and even before that
i know i sound so desparate
but i just wanna figure this one guy out
2006-10-06 17:08:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he flirts than yeah he likes you, but some guys need space from the girl they like for a bit. thats during lunch for him. dont be so worried!! GOODLUCK!! oh yeah, if he flirts with other girls hes trying to act like a playa...lol!! dont fall for it....TRUST ME!! lol....
2006-10-06 17:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Counting the Days. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello mariiaa,
You are thinking about this too much, mariiaa. It sounds like this guy is a wimp for not having the guts to ask you out. If you really want this guy, you will need to kick it up a notch, gather up your courage, and ask him out instead.
Get him away from his friends and your friends where you can really talk to each other. You can never get together unless you can really talk with each other and not depend upon the telegraphing game talking through your friends. That's not good.
Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2006-10-07 00:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if guys can actually be "figured out". But if it helps at all, you should not blow up about it anymore in front of his friends no matter how much you want to. That shows that you do like him whether they knew it or not. Enjoy your lunch without him, and enjoy the time you do spend together. if he likes you he will want to spend more time with you eventually.
2006-10-07 00:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by darlanota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends probably already told him that you had a crush on him. This is why he flirts with other girls in front of you. My advice is to let him know that you like him and she what happens from there........ Good Luck
2006-10-07 00:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by CR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know is by yourself..not through friends.catch him by surprise..alone...and start behaving as if you are going to propose to him..just be shy and stammer and say things like "i have got something to say to you which i wanted to for a very long time..."you know,the works...and observe his body language..if his face appears surprised but excited or anticipating..he likes you,if he looks like he wants to get away or looks embarrassed and uncomfortable....well...........
2006-10-07 00:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay cool. And pray for wisdom.
Keep observing him, to see how he acts. Is he really the guy you want?
2006-10-07 00:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep hangin around with him. he'll come around and maybe ask you out.
2006-10-07 00:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Drew P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋