2006-10-06 16:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relationship are by far the most difficult, confusing aspects of our every day lives. Your a good guy, you just might have a hard time showing that side off with the ladies. Women want understanding men. dont always talk, try listening every now and then...tell her shes beautiful, call her multiple times a day, just to see how shes doing....compliment her style or smile...suprise her out to dinner or to a movie... be honest and never lie...we can see right thru you when it comes to lying. its really really hard to find good guys these days, and some women have given up....so its not you, your not a bad guy at all....its just that there are so many bad guys out there, that make all the other good guys invisible...thats when you shine thru. you dont want to be a bachelor for life....maybe your just meeting the wrong kind of women at the wrong places....dont expect to fall in love with the girl you met at the club or bar...also, the best relationship start off with 2 people just being friends...being friends is actually a very romantic way to fall in love... be her friend, show her a good time, let her know you are always there for her, and always be there....any woman would soon stop to think, "wow, i think the guy im looking for is right here all along" she will realize that all this time she was out looking for the perfect guy, when all along, the perfect guy was her best friend.
dont ever give up...life is too short to give up on anything, esp something as complicated as love... if its meant to be, it will happen at the right time, at the right place, with the right preson.
Good luck and cheer up...
2006-10-06 17:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you tell them you want to be a bachelor, then of course they aren't going to wast their time with you. It is a choice made because you can't find the right woman, then it might be the way you present yourself. I met a nice man whom I talked to for hours and laughted and had a great time with but the way he was on our dates , claiming to like to pamper and spoil his woman, and then taking me to a restaraunt and only ordering chips, no meal, well that put him in the friends catagory. Woman like a man who will show them a good time and make them feel special. If you treat them just like buddies, that's all they will be. Good luck to you
2006-10-07 00:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I can't win either. Guys only want to be friends with me as well. I either get too clingy or too indifferent. I don't know how to be anymore. Maybe I'll be a bachelorette.
2006-10-07 00:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by shyfemme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am guessing this upsets u because u didn't make this decision, u feel it was made for u. u need confidence it gos along way.
2006-10-07 00:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is ok, unless you have one gal that keeps trying to win you over and you blow her off for any reason.
2006-10-07 00:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a loser for giving up
2006-10-07 00:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you made that decision then you should be happy about it! what's wrong?
2006-10-06 23:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur giving up? thats lame!
2006-10-07 00:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋