2006-10-06 16:52:09 · 26 answers · asked by jatahia4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutley nothing wrong with a young woman dating or marrying an older man. My husband is 23 yrs older than I am and it works great for us!! We've been married for 6 yrs and together for 8. Good Luck!!
2006-10-06 16:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyedladysexylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definetly not. In fact, it seems as if this occurs more and more often. It really depends on the age difference. Like 20 years difference is kind of pushing it but a few years is fine. But, dont take into account what people think just because of the age. Think about the feelings involved. Does this young woman love this older guy? Does this older man love the younger woman? That's all that should matter.
2006-10-07 00:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're uncomfortable about it or you wouldn't be posting.
When I first went to college, I met a young woman who was 17 and sleeping with some married senior citizen, because he "was good in bed" and "had a vasectomy so she didn't have to mess with condoms." That's wrong on many levels.
When I was 26, I dated a 42 year old. I broke up with him because he was too damn immature. He went on to marry some tramp who got pregnant by a married man when she was 30, was sleeping with her kid's father (who was still married) 6 years later, and added another couple of men to her menu in the mean time. (I think he was #4 that she was doing at the time)
In reality, age is just a number, but if there is a significant age difference, I'd maybe question motives. If everything seems ok, go for it!
2006-10-06 23:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the young woman had no father figure and the older man probably didnt either. what would you think as a child if you were lets say 10 years old and your mom was 26 and your dad was 45 or even older. Not cool.
2006-10-06 23:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by repo2agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 18 and my bf is 31. love sees no age. yeah if the girl is under 18 it can be worng, not only legally but many girls under 18 can't handle that kind of thing, the teen hormones are still raging and such. but i have a baby and am more mature i would say than most people my age. there hasn't been a problem with the age gap yet. we have a great time and always have plenty to talk about and things to do besides but also including sex. yeah sometimes he will say or do something that i'm like hmmm he's a lot older than me but it doesn't bother me. it's not like there's constantly a big neon sign over his head reminding me of his age. and when i am reminded, it doesn't bother me. because... it think i love him.
2006-10-07 00:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. not if they ACTUALLY love each other. In that case, it's not wrong. But usually young girls are just looking for money in older men.. know what I mean?
2006-10-06 23:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's over 18.
2006-10-06 23:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by greenwitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you mean by younger and older.
The love has no age is bull. You haven't fallen for say... a four year old and have been with them... besides, they're four. How do they know what love is?
2006-10-06 23:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kerz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in each others eyes, but people will talk. I dated a younger girl for a while and people stared
2006-10-06 23:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've left too many blanks to answer this, really. Depends on your ages and the circumstances.
2006-10-06 23:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by south_lido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋