It's confusing...
Most of the times, girls pick the lesser of the two success...
Are they intimidated by the independence-ness of that guy?
Or are they trying to be a saint... to save the less fortunate guy compared to the succesful guy that really doesn't need any fixing?
Yeah..., it seems to me a lot of girls... (well probably girls that I dated... went with the less independent guy)...
I mean, I work in a medical field... I know what I want in my life...
I don't need these or those...
Of course, I also give a lot of attention to her..., but it seems that they always pick the less succesful guys that are in need of their presence...
Can you tell me what's wrong with the picture?
2006-10-06 15:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't necessarily say that. But I know women that are with men that are "well to do off" complain because their husbands are constantly working and don't pay them any attention, and a woman needs attention. But with a guy that's like a thug or doesn't have that much going on yet or at all, they ususally will pay more attention to the woman because 1. they ain't that successful in their ventures or 2. they are lookin for a free ride and know how to get it. Women want a well balanced man. A man that can make time out of their busy schedule. Women appreciate a hard working man, but we want our quality time too. Catch an episode of desperate housewives....
2006-10-06 15:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE INDEPENDENT, and here's why:
No woman wants a man that is going to spend her money, and rely on her to pay for everything.
Most women like attention! That means they like gifts and to be taken out, but they don't want to be with the wall flower of the party.
2006-10-06 15:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by KCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls that look for dependent guys... are looking for boys. Women know the difference and look for independent men. See the difference? It's a maturity factor. Look for independent women... self sufficient, morals straight... and you shouldn't find the same problem.
Good luck!
2006-10-06 15:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just for a question of attention...Girl likes attention...Most of the time successful guy don't have time so they settle for less successful but believe me...we women are not stupid, if we could have an affectionate successful, sweet helpful boyfriend we would take him instead...
2006-10-06 15:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women fell the need to fix,if you do not need to be fixed, they make you into such a mess that eventually they will get to fix you, If you resist, they accuse you of not caring about their feelings. Trust me this is not a winnable situation, other than staying away from insecure girls
2006-10-06 15:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely want a happy medium. Clingy guys are annoying as hell, but I don't want a guy who's so independent he never talks to me. I want a guy who cares about me a lot but isn't creepily into me or stalker-ish.
2006-10-06 15:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love guys who can think for themselves. But some girls need to be needed. I don't like clingy guys, personally. I want a guy to sincerely love me in that he knows that he doesn't always need to be by my side. I hope that made sense!
2006-10-06 15:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by haliangel123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been independent is cute, until u get to a certain point. Independet shows you are a strong man...
2006-10-06 15:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gorjust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends who you are dating...i mean what kind of person.but I think Independent!
But
To be honest Girls are like Virus!
they come to the computer of your life
Delete your smile
scan your pockets
download their problems
and Hang you for ever!
2006-10-06 15:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Cali_Boy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
independent guys is a plus!
2006-10-06 15:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋