It seems that I'm having a bad streak of relationship...
How can I recognize those pattern in a girl so I can avoid it in the future?
2006-10-06 15:45:45 · 5 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off you got to communicate well and kinda know who you are dealing with. Ask questions. If they are single ask why? Usually she will reveal if she just got out of a relationship. And if they keep on bringing up their ex or talking about the past, then the past isn't completely the past. Don't expect too much out of the relationship. Just take it how it is. I remember I was talking to this guy and he was sooooooo cute. But one day I called him and he told me that he got back with his girl. I felt bad, but then I respected it because he was a man and told me instead of stringing me along to find out down the road. But there's really no way to tell because you don't know how honest anyone really is, so I would just casually date, and don't get into any serious relationship with anyone... especially anyone that just broke off a relationship. Those are the people that need to have some alone time to figure out where they need to be. You already know where you stand and where you want to be so don't get in that predicament with people in those situations.
2006-10-06 15:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rolland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first when meeting a girl you ask her about past relationships and if she broke up with one recently and always talks about him good or bad then you know shes hurting shes just trying to play it off like she dont care .so she feels by being with someone else it will help her get over him faster or she will use you to try to make him jealous.but my opinion you can tell by how much attention she gives to you and the conversation.my personal experience i got in a quick relationship after a break up just to get over him and it worked but i cant say it always works but good luck there are plenty of great girls out there like they say good things come to those who wait .
2006-10-06 15:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by BIGL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date, date, date and date before you make a commitment. Don't jump into relationships just for the heck of it. You can always have friends. Don't make anybody your girl so fast. Good luck!!
2006-10-06 15:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Charlies_Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it is hard b/c from what I am seeing most girls jump directly from one relationship into another scared to be alone. Pitiful. You just have to feel her out good...no pun intended.
2006-10-06 15:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by sosickofred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋