a close friend of mine use to like me a lot a couple months ago... when we went back to school he told me he was over it and i realiezed that the whole time i actually did feel something for him and it wasnt just friendship... but now its too late... so i met this guy at work and he told me he really liked me and he is tons of fun and all that so i thought taht maybe if i talk to thisn guy i can move on from liking my friend.... so i told my friend about this guy liking me since were still friends... and all he told me was well if u really like him go for it if not forget...today i realized that i have very strong feelings for my friend and they cant go away by repleacing him with someone else... now i dont know what to do.. idk if i should tell him i really like him and if we can try one more time... but then i think ill make myself seem like an idot please help
2006-10-06 15:39:38 · 3 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to know what or who it is you want before you can seek help. You are rushing from this guy. to that guy, back to the first guy. Seems to me you need to catch your breath.
Simply tell the first bf that you made a mistake and maybe it could be better if you try again. Otherwise ...relax a bit and get to know yourself all over again. Start a new set of goals. Re-discover your soul and who You really are.
Be independent!
2006-10-06 16:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you an tell him but don't get your hopes up because he's already let it be known that he only wants you as a friend.
2006-10-06 22:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell him.
2006-10-06 22:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋