I don't know what to do anymore. I am so upset. Tonight, He got mad at me for no reason, someone told him something that I didn't even do..They totally lied!! It is sooo...stupid. I know that the person doesn't want us to be together, and we have for 8 months. He keeps playing these little games. Now he won't even talk to me on the computer. I just need help on what to do. He always seems mad at me..Augh! HELP!!!
2006-10-06 15:30:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a person is in the wrong, he will try to rectify by talking to the other, confirming his suspicions even more.
I suggest this. And this will work wonders.
Don't give in to his sulks. A man loves to feel he's right all the time. And women tend to feel guilty about everything. This 2 don't get a good combo, coz one day he'd leave you thinking he's right and u're unworthy and u'd be wondering what the hell happened and really guilty, thinking it must have been your fault.
Well its NOT your fault. Don't give in to him. You know you're not in the wrong so stand your ground. Why should u make the first move to want to talk to him? U NEED to be the b*itch. The next time he's online or something, don't talk to him. Just IGNORE HIM. He'd be wondering.. "hey..how come she's not trying to talk to me like she always does?" Why do u think he's always mad at u? coz he gets your attention and its a great ego boost.
U need to have the attitude that YOU CAN GET ANY GUY YOU WANT. He will realize it soon and realize 'ok i don't want to lose her to some other guy' and he will not get mad at you anymore. Stopping feeding his ego. If u're innocent stand your ground. If you're not as well, well apologize in a civil manner once then move on. Don't get all clingy and teary when apologizing. Trust me. This works. Silence is the best treatment. Its working for u right?
2006-10-06 15:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have any trust in you. Without trust, the relationship will never move forward.
2006-10-06 22:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with love comes trust. if he doesnt trust you, take it from me hun, he definitely doesnt love you. maybe you should just get on with your life. you dont need a guy who doesnt trust you.
2006-10-06 22:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by krischizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he trusts this person more than you, not worth it. find yourself some happiness with someone else
2006-10-06 22:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend... and punch the guy who lied. =))) ;)
2006-10-06 22:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by live_laugh_love l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you guys should talk this out... thats all u can do... give him some time... communication... thats all it takes...
good luck =)
2006-10-06 22:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by HS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋