Why do we cheat on our partners?From spouses to couples. Is it the nature of men to cheat? What is the reason behind?
The best part is, we all know its wrong but we continue to do it and enjoy doing it. Why?
2006-10-06 15:22:15 · 13 answers · asked by caterpillar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because it is enjoyable. It's like driving an old car and finally you get a new one and it's different and a lot of fun to drive. Men do this even if they love their wives and children and women do the same thing to their husbands. It's all about getting attention and feeling desirable to someone different.
2006-10-06 15:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a part in all of us that find doing something wrong exciting whether we want to admit it or not. A lot of people cheat not because they aren't being fulfilled at home, but because it is exciting just because of the fact that it is wrong. Remember when you were a kid and you did something wrong, the rush that you got from it, the anxiety over it. It's kinda like that. But sometimes it is because the person is not getting fulfillment at home with there mate. Men are always better and more open about sex than women are in general, and that is what keeps the sex life exciting. Women on the other hand aren't so open to try new or kinky things. And when the sex life gets dull, the guy is gonna buck every time. Like they say, "If you don't feed the dog he will stray from home".
2006-10-06 15:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by madroofer36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people cheat (both men and women) because of 2 reasons - the first - ego - it makes us feel good when someone else is intersted and two - there is something missing in the current relationship. Sometimes after time, things can go flat and both parties become guilty of taking the other for granted.
2006-10-06 15:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by ang_172 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a man's or woman's nature to cheat.They cheat because there not getting what they want from the relationship.If you put your hand in a empty bag of chips you get nothing right?So what do you do next? Go find another bag of chips,making sure this one has chips in it don't you?Well it's the same for relationships.If your getting nothing out of it you go find another that will.We as people need to learn how to tell your mates the truth about what we really want instead of lying to them and doing something else.Stop playing games with your mates AND yourself,both will get hurt in the end.
2006-10-06 15:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone who cheats has that little something that is missing from their lives. One can't always put their finger on what it is, but they usually are looking for it in the person they are cheating with.
If a man is truly happy with the person they are with, they will have no desire to cheat.
2006-10-06 15:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by HSK's mama 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I haven't a clue. I do not cheat. I have never cheated. I will never cheat on my man. I believe in being truthful and faithful to the one you love.
2006-10-06 15:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess when they cheat on someone the answer is usually
A. they like the other person but don`t know what to do
B. show off to others that they did it and look cool
C. they don`t really love the person they`re with
D. cause they want to fit in
iono those are the only ones i could think of right now. but i`m letting you guys know. i HATE cheaters ! hate'em! hate'em! hate'em!
2006-10-06 15:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated. I think that people who do cheat do it because they love the thrill of trying not to get caught.
2006-10-06 15:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think we all cheat. some of the human race believes in committed relationships. and the others it is the thing about the forbidden fruit and the thrill of trying to get away with it.
2006-10-06 15:26:06 · answer #9 · answered by sharon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know i never cheated. i'v been cheated on. I cant stand people who cheat. I will never cheat on my woman EVER.
2006-10-06 15:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋